Hi there, I'm quite new into chastity. I've had a cage made out of stainless steel for several years and I just wore it from time to time for a few hours (wasn't good for long-term, also it had an external lock) A few months ago I talked to my husband about the topic and he liked the idea. We do have got a vanilla relationship, but he's definetely the dom in our relationship So I made some researches and ordered three different cages from Amazon, just to have a look which model suits best to me. The last one I ordered was a HTV3 Nub duplicate, which is really nice and fits also really good... but for some reason my balls (penis included) gets pushed away, when errected. Do you've got any ideas or model suggestions to avoid this!? I really want to go into long term chastity, and I know it's a long way, but for this I need a device which suits my needs (should be made out of plastic/ silicon and locked by an internal lock) Currently I keep the keys, because a few days ago I gave the keys to my husband when wearing another cage. It worked quite good for aprox. 5 (also when in the pool etc.) but then it started chaffing and we took a break for a few days. I hope it's not written to complicated If there are any questions.. just aks
Thank you so much for welcoming me. I really like this page, because there are so many stories to read and so many opportunities to inform and train myself.
Welcome to CM. It takes some time for most of us to find the correct cage for long term. You just keep experimenting.
Thank you I guess my problem is, I'm a grower. I can go from prox. 2.5cm up to 13cm and I think that is the point, which makes it so hard to find the perfect cage. When wearing the duplicate version of the nub, everything is ok, but when I get an errection, my little friend just slips out of it, which I guess isn't the point
Welcome to the Mansion! Please don't expect to go from part time to full time just by putting the device on and locking it! It takes time to get used to wearing a device. Go slowly, maybe a few hours a day and slowly increase your time in. Use plenty of lube to help control the chaffing! There is lots of good advice here, read up and don't be discouraged by early failures!