Before chastity we had some kind of open relationships where I was allowed to (rarely!) meet with other girls. Now when we practice chastity it seems rather strange. How can I even think about somebody else if she is my queen/boss? However, I think I'm not ready to go all-in into chastity lifestyle and I would like to have an opportunity to have something else sometimes. But she thinks that it means that I'm not serious about chastity. And I just like to play here and there, without a hard commitment. What do you think? Can chastity lifestyle be compatible with husband’s having sex with other girls sometimes?
Maybe your keys should be locked in a box that has two different locks on it and they each have a key to only one lock. Then they both have to agree to let you out
If you only want to do chastity with her then you should go all in and make her happy sorry your happiness takes second place
@Saleko i dont think that rigt really. cos She migt not let you out and then you will see another Lady and you will still be in your cage. and then the Lady will know that you cant do nothing.
It really seems like you two lack the communication and honestly that a couple should have. I would try to get the honest truth out there first, even if that means going to a sex therapist. Assuming everything you said is dead on with how she feels and she is ok with you having outside relationships & she wants to be your key holder… maybe she can set you up with the women and unlock you for the experience? I can relate to this scenario at all, but there is no right or wrong way to definitively do chastity in a relationship… you guys need to find out what works best for you, and why it works best, and what you both want to get out of it. I personally don’t think you have the answers to any of these questions though for both partners.
i dont quite get you. You mentioned that you want to play chastity.. only with her..and you have requested literature to be recommended for her earlier.. she read it and impose chastity on you..voila.. but then you want her to remove chastity for you so that you can play with other girls.. so i take it that you want her to take role-playing with you in imposing chastity on you when you two are together but still maintain liberty to have outside sex away from her... so you want to have a polygamous sexual relationship while the existing one being sexless.. ok, so dictate the terms of your version of chastity play to her so that she is agreeable to it.. if she doesnt.. look for a pro madame for a fee so that you can switch roles/personalities at ease without hurting anyone...
She is right, you are not serious about chastity and sounds like you are playing a fantasy game where you pretend your submissive but then want sex with others. I really hope she finds the strength and courage to lock you up permanently. I submitted to my Mistress, she has got so much better at being dominant and our lives have never been better, she is my world and I would do anything to make her happy and I honestly could not think about having sex with someone else. You should put a lot more effort in to pleasing your Mistress and see where it takes you rather than even thinking of the possibility of having sex with girls. I am sure if you are mature enough to really try you might just be happier giving her the ogasms. Just curious how do you feel if she wanted to meet other men for sex?
@Cagedandinlove well i think you rigt what you say to the man but you must had done something a lot wrong cos it look like you have been smacked hard.
Haha Jemima, no my Mistress Max was just getting excited giving a maintenance spanking, don't really need a proper punishment that would be to scary.
"What do you think? Can chastity lifestyle be compatible with husband’s having sex with other girls sometimes?" Different things work for different people. What does *she* think?