Hi all!

Hi everyone,
I'm Dave, aged 41 from Manchester in the UK.

I've known I was submissive from an early age, and when I became aware of the concept of chastity, about 15 or so years ago I was very excited by it and read everything I could on the subject. This was pre-internet for me so there wasn't that much available.

I've been a lurker on this site for ages, but I've not really had much to contribute as my G/f isn't really big on chastity, she still thinks it's a little weird and will only really indulge me occasionally.

Anyway, this week is one of those rare times for me. I've taken a few days off work, as I find my CB6000 to be quite uncomfortable to wear for more than a few hours at a time, so I didn't want to have to deal with too much 'real life' while locked up.

My G/f and I have been together for almost eight years, but we still don't live together. She has two teenage sons still at home, plus a dog while I have cats. It works quite well for us as it keeps the weekends special and although she doesn't really care for chastity, she can be quite the Domme when the mood takes her. Our sex life has always been pretty good and there have been some encouraging new developments lately.

Anyway, I gave her the key to my device before I left her on Sunday, went to work on Monday and Tuesday, then on Tuesday night, after 'edging' myself a number of times while watching the clips on the devine Maitresse Madeline's site, I took the plunge and locked myself up.

Tuesday night was very exciting, but to be truthful, since then things have been a little boring. I've just been rattling around my flat and catching up on a bit of cleaning.

My G/f is coming over on Saturday night though, and you might say I'm 'on a promise'. She's already said that she'll wear the slutty pink underwear that I got her for Christmas, there's been talk of me painting her toenails and *crosses fingers* using our 8" strap on on her while I remain locked.

I say 'crosses fingers', as we've been in this situation before and due to alcohol, tiredness or just second thoughts on her part, things have fallen flat.
However, I do think that she'll make the effort for me this time, I spoiled her for valentines day and was very romantic. Things have been generally pretty great between us recently, but I still kind of feel like I'm walking on eggshells when the chastity thing comes up. She tends to roll her eyes a bit and make comments about me and my 'dirty ways', albeit in a jokey way.

Anyway, sorry for such a long post for my first one, but hopefully I'll be able to update next week, with a report of our wild and horny night.

Even if it doesn't go to plan, I hope to contribute in the future.

Cheers,
Dave.

 

Thank you for that nice welcome Mistress Watchful.

Ok, quick update. It was starting to bother me that my G/f would back out and we'd find ourselves in that awful place where she just wants to have vanilla sex and I end up sulking but trying not to.

I also fitted the strap on over my CB, just to see how it felt as I'd not worn it for a long time.
I couldn't help but think that it might be a little painful for both of us. When we've used it before, she has said that it hurts a little.

Maybe I've got time on my hands because I'm off work, but I started to brood on things a little and so last night I rang her for a chat. I said that I didn't want her to feel pressured to do something she wasn't really that keen on, and might well turn into a bit of a fiasco, especially after a few drinks.

So, the alternative is something which we're both happy with, she hopefully will be a lot more relaxed and will be able to tease and torment me while having fun herself.

Plan B:

I'll be tied up on the bed, still locked in my CB and left to watch a porn DVD while my Mistress takes her time, having a drink and surfing the internet (the only pc she has at home is her son's laptop when he's not using it, which isn't very often, so she enjoys spending time on my pc when she's here.)

She'll come in at regular intervals and tease me, first with the cb on and then eventually taking it off, giving my 'equipment' a good wash and then continuing the tease and denial.

This will continue for quite a while hopefully, I've to tell her when I'm getting close to cumming and of course, that's her cue to leave me on the edge again.

Her Rampant Rabbit 'Wave' will be close by of course, and with new batteries in. I can't imagine I'll last very long if she just climbs on and rides me, so although I will eventually be allowed to cum, it'll probably be just as she's reached the edge herself by using the vibe.

After I got off the phone last night I was elated!
We talked about other stuff aswell, and she got a lot of the day's work related stress off her chest. By the time we were talking about the upcoming events on Saturday, she was more than happy to go along with the alternative. In fact there was a playful, wicked tone to her voice as we talked about it. She even said 'phone me tomorrow night and I'll tease you over the phone'

I'm very excited and horny today and I keep finding bits of my flat that need sorting out and cleaning just to keep my self focused!!

More to follow after tomorrow.