Could you pretend to be dominant?

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    Jessica Alexander Trans woman not a mistress or Dom

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    #26 Jessica Alexander, Nov 8, 2018
    I can at times but don’t enjoy it. Mistress would laugh at me if I tried to be dominate with her.
     
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    #27 b_quark, Dec 4, 2018
    Perhaps I could pretend to be dominant for a short while. The real question is, would it even be at all convincing? I think not. My wife and I both know I'm naturally submissive. I just don't have it in me to take charge in the bedroom, and I never have. And where we are in our relationship now, she would never believe it or take it seriously... It would almost certainly end with her laughing and humiliating me for thinking that a small-dicked, premature ejaculating, panty-wearing, wannabe cuckold sissy could be in charge.
     
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    #28 henry58, Dec 4, 2018
    Depending on the motivation, i think someone could pretend to be dominant to a certain level. Generally, there are 2 types of actors; Method and Technical. Method would be in character and pass for real as a result of having inner emotion, Technical would need to learn the techniques and then work to deliver the role without inner emotion.
     
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    #29 Junebug15, Dec 4, 2018
    Absolutely not only submissive
     
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    #30 Guest 3729, Dec 5, 2018
    I can get into the moment with my Miss to be dominant if she wants me too, especially if she really gets me into it. But it’s hard for me to act dominant with her especially in a non sexual context, it just was never right... and now we know why ;). So basically I suppose ifbthe tides were turned and she asked me to lock her up, I would struggle with a lot of the things new KH’s struggle with as far as living my role.
     
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    #31 herhubby, Dec 5, 2018
    Carbon copy here Nicoftime. I've tried a few times, it becomes obvious I'm faking it and we both end up just laughing...
     
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    #32 Violet_Noir, Dec 6, 2018
    Without a doubt, there are some days I just don't feel in the slightest bit submissive. Also if the person I was with liked it or was a switch then I'd be happy to Dom her occasionally.
     
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    #33 chaste_zombie, Dec 6, 2018
    Yes, I could happily live a lifestyle where it was her who was subservient and had to endure all the things. Corsets, ballet heels, female chastity belts.. bring it on!! However she has no interest so rather then get her to do something very uncomfortable that she does not want to do, I endure something very uncomfortable that I want to do.
     
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    #34 Living Curious, May 27, 2022
    Amazing how things change in 4 years...wife left, life was hard for a bit, then I moved to Colorado and started a D/s relationship with @Breathe who forbids me from topping in any way
     
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    #35 madams-sissysub, May 28, 2022
    Got to love a good thread revival!
     
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