Hi there, Essentially a submissive male from NZ slowly exploring the chastity area as I believe that it will fit in with the relationship that I have with my wife. We have been together a long time and have worked out together that she is the alpha of our relationship. Looking into chastity devices to try and will give the key to my wife to hold. She has been denying me for a number of years now - but will often show herself to me and edge me. I'm not very confident sexually and have not been with many women anyway and it doesn't really bother me overly. Trying to develop the FLR side of the relationship as I feel happier when she instructs me with tasks/duties and I'm happy to work through any lists given. She likes to be in charge anyway way - and while we discuss big the issues we normally go with her thinking on matters. She has not been with any other men during our relationship - but I'm open to cuckolding if she did.
I am new here too I have ordered a cage but I don't think it will arrive for another 4 or 5 days I am so excited I just can't wait. I have bought the Bon 4 plus. I have never thought about anything like this before. I don't know why I bought it but once I had I contacted the company to cancel it but they told me they would give me a credit note so I thought oh blow it I would let the order go and then the more I thought about it the more I wanted it now I am so looking forward to being locked up I am counting the minutes till I get it.