Hi all! New to chastity but been a closet submissive for about as long as I can remember (I'm 32). I've been with the wife 7 years and married for 2 and she's always known I'm a little kinky but not the full extent. Gradually been letting her know as nervous as to how she'd take it but she doesn't mind. Bought a chastity cage about 2 months ago which she thought was a novelty one off but more recently I confessed I was more serious about it and now we are doing a soft locktober- locked during the day but not at night. I'm loving it and we are seeing how we get on. Part of the deal was also to do sobertober as I've always been a bit of a drinker but part of my drinking was because of my secret and being a bit sad at not living out my desires so not drinking has been easy so far. Anyway ive been loving the forum and thought why stay a lurker so have signed up. Amazing how many people are on here and how many sign up everyday!
Welcome to our community. It can be difficult to keep secrets and I'm glad you're being open with your wife. Good luck.
Coming out to your wife is so hard and so important. Congratulations. Keep sharing with her, let her know you. And good luck with sobertober.