I think some of the biggest mistakes people make with this is trying to dump too much information at once, and relying on others words. bullet...
Anyone has had a relationship or had sex with someone that u have never expected ...ever? that was unexpected and u always find it...
i don't know the answer
not paying attention to your partner. not talk with him do nothing with him
i know a sex toy is very good, you must get much pleasure from it.