Your idea is not good, in my opinion. Masturbating whenever you want is not chastity in any definition. When your done and wear the cage, you...
This is what it's like for me. There's nothing orgasmic about it at all. And unlike a ruin, not even a build up. It's more like, your know...
May I ask what she wanted that was too me as and strict?
I would call it a reward. Who doesn't look forward to having erections? If it wasn't a treat, why do we look forward to it when the cage is...
30 seconds to 3 minutes is a 6 times increase. With practice (i.e. a lot of edging) you can probably get up to 10 to 20 minutes. Despite what...
I haven't heard of a cage causing any physical issue with getting an erection once removed. However, I know that worrying about one's ability to...
I can't speak to the PA, but a solid tube, fit as you describe, is the best fit for me and for the same reason as you state. I would add that...
I used her definition of a punishment. She knows I like pleasing her, and if I do a great job competing any task she asks of me, my reward is...
Use tends to be intermittent. So all in 24/7 for decent stretches, then freedom for a week or a month, then back in again... I think I got too...
I've been tempted to call it enough a few times. But she was reluctant and uncertain when we were first trying it out. I assured her I was...
Forced? No. My idea? No. If I had said no, the consequences would be that I wouldn't be in chastity. She would feel weird for bringing it up...
I can see the advantage of a partner that shares the same sexual interests. That's the key. It isn't about where she or you wanted the cage....
If I may just address this before answering your question... I lurked on this forum for probably around 9 months before joining because of that...
Definitely learning here; thank you. It's a shame because there such an important need to learn about this. There are serious pitfalls to avoid...
Thank you!