In my experience, this varies from relationship to relationship from Dominant to submissive and the dynamics between them. I'm more than happy...
Thanks all for the warm welcome back, much appreciated!
Welcome here from one newer member to another!
Getting back into things....
Apparently I came across this site several years ago when I first was exploring my submission and chastity. Since then I've had the opportunity...
I can add to that in my experience. The woman who is my Keyholder is also very very submissive and for her holding the key and keeping me locked...
Having been pierced with the size you're going to use 10G and then stretched up from there (now at 6G) you definitely want to use the circular bar...