Hi to everyone here, Apologies but I’m fairly new to the world of forums and chat rooms,and don’t really want to ask my 23 year old daughter for advice!!(although she would probably be more open minded than I expect) I have always been submissive by nature and have always had a desire to serve, even though I am single and live alone, I regularly self lock,can’t really explain why, I just find it both comforting and appropriate I suppose? Looking forward to continuing this journey with all of you wonderful people out there... Thank you.
Welcome aboard CM. I too am self locked in that although my Mistress ordered me into chastity, I actually hold the key. I’m almost 7 weeks in now 24/7 except for playtime with Mistress.
Yeah, I’ve only started to look properly,and am learning this stuff ...just feel liberated by being caged..if that makes sense??
I plan to go for 3 months at least. I’ve heard that something magical happens at 3 months. Some sort of turning point or something. Not long now.
Self-locking calms me. Helps me focus on my work, my chores and my obligations. Welcome to the CM. Lots of good sources of support for males who want to be chaste and submissive.
Absolutely agree...a few years ago I would have been “why the bloody he’ll would anyone do that? Like yourself, it’s calming , quietens the mind,makes you more relaxed, and I suppose by removing the “testosterone “ urge makes you a better person..can’t explain it but, agree wholeheartedly my friend