A KH Wife's response to Mistress Lucy

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    #51 L-u-c-y, Feb 8, 2017
    Thatguy is 33 going on 83, those 10 years really taught him a lot.
     
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    #52 Nicoftime, Feb 8, 2017
    Because children sometimes hear without listening as well.
     
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    #53 L-u-c-y, Feb 8, 2017
    Are you a male who tops from the bottom?
     
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    #54 Thatguyontheinternet, Feb 8, 2017
    Age matters - anyone here over the age of 40 or so has got to be thinking "my god thatguyontheinternet is a crazy kid". And rightfully so. Because what the extra 10 years HAS apparently taught me is that to those older than me I WILL seem to lack their maturity and life experience. Thats my way of saying I try hard to respect that those who have lived longer, and experience more, will have a perspective that should be minded by me. THATS where my extra decade apparently matters - I've learned that age and experience mean something.

    Only the very young, or very immature have not learned that VERY simple life lesson. The older people around me made damned sure I learned it long ago. If you don't think her being 4 years out of high school has some bearing on how she interacts here, then... Idk. I don't even know what that means for you.
     
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    #55 L-u-c-y, Feb 8, 2017
    You haven't addressed my previous points.

    And I have a degree from Cambridge University. You are obsessed with age, you ancient old fart.
     
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    #56 frankie teardrop, Feb 8, 2017
    Do you think maybe you'd be happier just talking to other 33 year-olds, paying special attention to singling out the ones who share your beliefs and won't contradict you about anything?

    It seems you probably need to stay clear of younger people, especially female ones.

    Nice kitty!
     
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    #57 Nicoftime, Feb 8, 2017
    No, I'm a male that read that a keyholder would not like you to speak on her behalf, which you did when you generalized.

    You CANNOT be wrong can you? If you ever did admit anything it would probably go something like.." I am sorry YOU felt generalized ".

    What am I doing...I keep sticking my hand in this bees nest, maybe I am a masochist
     
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    #58 LadyS, Feb 8, 2017
    From someone who was 23 and is now on her way to 33,10 years does make a difference.
     
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    #59 Thatguyontheinternet, Feb 8, 2017
    https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-author-speaks/201408/change-your-brain-change-your-life-25

    I disagree healthily with folks constantly. The little gang-bangers I used to lock up loved me because I treated them with respect. There's only one person here who consistently draws the ire of the rest of the members, and at ain't me. Perhaps it's my own youth that keeps allowing me to get pulled in by her. Not sure. Ill let you know in 10 years :)


    Time matters, age matters. Only the young and the dumb will say otherwise.
     
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    #60 L-u-c-y, Feb 8, 2017
    I did actually say on my 2nd post on this thread "I'm sorry if I have offended you with my comments, of course there are women who are into chastity and enjoy it, but not as many as all the male members like to think. I'm glad you are making it work in a way that's useful to you both."

    Only women who are topped from the bottom or males who top from the bottom should be offended by my post.
     
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    #61 L-u-c-y, Feb 8, 2017
    You liked my original post and said I made some good points. I thanked you for it.
     
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    #62 Thatguyontheinternet, Feb 8, 2017
    OK. Im hereby trademarking that last sentence. When I'm with @Thatgirl again she'll have to show me how to put it as a signature.
     
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    #63 L-u-c-y, Feb 8, 2017
    Just because you were tools when you were 23 doesn't mean I am.
     
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    #64 LadyS, Feb 8, 2017
    Hey now!!!! Not nice to call names, I didn't say I was a tool. I was raising a child when I was 23. I'm just saying I wish I knew then what I know now.
    The older one get the more the brain develops. Life experiences really do count for something.
     
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    #65 Mr.jackking, Feb 8, 2017
    Well this is a very exhausting thread. Eveyone talking in circles.

    Lucy,

    Your original post did generalize and imply most women in married chastity are only doing it to appease their husbands thus topping from the bottom. Which is incorrect and insulting.

    You also imply that when a man asks "How do I get my wife interested in Chastity" that he is manipulating her and topping from the bottom.
    1. You can't top from the bottom of a chastity relationship that hasn't formed.
    2. How is asking advice about how chastity appeals to woman and what is in it for her manipulating? He is actually thinking of her needs instead of bullying her into it.

    Please stop speaking for woman who participate in Chastity or are asked to. You do represent us.
     
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    #66 Nicoftime, Feb 8, 2017
    Nuh uuah sticks fingers in ears
     
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    #67 L-u-c-y, Feb 8, 2017
    And you do not represent other women who participate in it. You can speak about your experience but not theirs.
     
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    #68 L-u-c-y, Feb 8, 2017
    Don't you people have anything else to do?

    I made a post on my thread with my opinions. Why do you care so much about what I think?
     
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    #69 hubsub, Feb 8, 2017
    I'm telling you guys... the forum "Ignore" function is your friend. Makes CM a much more pleasant place.
     
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    #70 L-u-c-y, Feb 8, 2017
    The "stick you head in the sand function" is very useful when you read something that is too close to the truth.

    If it's not close to the truth no one would be bothered by it.
     
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    #71 Mr.jackking, Feb 8, 2017
    Did I say I did? Imply that even? This is where people bring in your age and narcissism.

    Last word, talking in circles just to hear yourself speak, parrot talking. "I know you are but what am I?

    I have things to do.
     
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    #72 L-u-c-y, Feb 8, 2017
    Why do you care about my little opinions on my little thread so much? Do you think it will cause the chastity scene to implode? Is that all it would take?
     
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    #73 Nicoftime, Feb 8, 2017
    I think she dropped the mic before she left
     
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    #74 L-u-c-y, Feb 8, 2017
    I have dared speak the unspeakable.... the truth about a fetish
     
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    #75 Thatguyontheinternet, Feb 8, 2017
    THAT

    AND THIS


    Are the sort of simple logic that betray your age. And more accurately, your development. Nobody gives a rats ass where you have a degree from. College campuses are not exactly places that challenge people to think critically and tolerate others viewpoints any more. They weren't even when I did my degree a decade ago. They teach you to be a pretty little snowflake, and that nobody should ever say anything to hurt your feelings. Because you're special, and can be anything you want. In colleges you worry about "micro aggressions", in the world you worry about actual aggressions .

    Its when real life starts beating the shit out of you, AFTER you pay the extortion fee we all pay for that college degree, that you learn your not special, you can't be anything you want, the world owes you NOTHING, and your feelings are nobody else problem. Life will teach you to disagree with people without thinking they're stupid. And it will teach you that sometimes admitting your own faults can actually BOLSTER an argument... hint.. hint...

    Only a 23 year old responds to being challenged with "well I have a degree from ______". Trust me.

    If you had learned life lessons, like how to deal with being challenged, while at university, we would see the evidence of it. You wouldn't need to tell us. And to circle all the way back to my original response to this thread: What's frightening is the idea of someone like that seeking out a D/S arrangement so they never have to be challenged in any way.

    (Here is where you stick your thumps in your ears and wiggle your fingers at me, I believe.)
     
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