Locking up co workers

I don't get you at all. You're worried that your wife is having an affair but here you are fantasizing about things that would constitute an affair. You really need to figure your shit out.

 

Madam doesn’t have anyone else locked up, but she used to talk to other male subs on line. And her bull was her sub in the beginning.

 

I wouldn't mind my wife sleeping with others but I would want to know it is happening. I wouldn't want it to be happening behind my back. There is a bit of a difference in all fairness.

 

This forum reads more and more like a teenage wank-fest everyday than it does a forum for the discussion of male Chasity and FLR.

Just my $0.02 worth...

 

Which is bad enough when it is just people writing their jerk off fantasies, but then when people come here asking for advice, those same people give advice based on that or an ideal they don't live. If I were to ever suggest that a woman come here to learn about male chastity, I'd give her a list of 10 or so posters and tell her that odds are anything else anyone posts is bullshit.

 

I think the original post has legitimacy as he's starting a discussion based on the idea of your KH also locking up others.
But should fantasy driven posts be moved to their own section? It's not strictly fiction. The very worst are those who imitate KH's to try to manipulate the forum to satisfy their humiliation fetish etc

 

I feel we could do with a "Wouldn't it be cool if..." forum, because these posts are interesting and contemplating them tells us something about ourselves.

 

I’ve always been frustrated when people post their fantasies as real. It’s been happening since the first BBSs preInternet.

That said, I agree, we need to do a better job of separating facts from fantasy. In my case I’ve done a lot and to newbies I’m sure some sounds fake. So I try and limit talking about what I’ve done.

I try and share what I’ve learned and offer encouragement and things to think about.

The reality is the best course of action is usually

1. Open and honest communication
2. Going slow
3. Go back to step 1
4. Repeat

 

Can't see why this post created such a fight already?
Think everybody knows a few people deserving to be locked, be it coworkers, polticians or just the plain old idiots...

 

The OP states in the first sentence of his post that he fantasizes about his wife locking up other. So it is fantasy not reality.

Fantasies are great we all have, and enjoy them from time to time. What ruffles my feathers are when someone (a lot of them here) post their fantasies and pass them off as realities. Now I may not be the sharpest knife in the kitchen, but I know when I'm being fed BS, and when someone's story is probably true.

Unfortunately not everyone can. This then becomes a tremendous disservice to the person, male or female, who comes here looking for advice.

Just my $0.02 worth...

 

And it would hopefully keep these posts segregated for easy avoidance.

Or people could just preface fantasy threads with Fantasy: Insert Title Here

 

I think that the point is that there is a section of the site for posting fiction, and this is not that area.

 

It's not quite fiction either, which actually makes it more interesting. I like the idea of us spinning fantasies collaboratively.

 

Maybe we need another section for that?