Chastity Contracts

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    #151 El Guapo, Jan 7, 2018
    Yes!

    I don't know if you ever watched 'Firefly' ['The Train Job' in particular] ... there is a line in there:
    "You made an agreement with _____, There is no mind-changing."
     
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    #152 Joroincharge, Jan 7, 2018
    No I didn't but I'm sure it's the same idea.
     
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    #153 PauloChaste, Jan 16, 2018
    My wife says we don't need one as I should do as she tells me!
     
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    #154 El Guapo, Jan 16, 2018
    :rolleyes: I can't help but say it ... "As you should."
     
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    #155 Pattisissy, Jan 31, 2018
    My contract is super simple.
    My wife said you will wear whatever chastity device I tell you to wear for as long I was I wish
     
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    #156 El Guapo, Feb 1, 2018
    A women's prerogative :strong:
     
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    #157 Joroincharge, Feb 1, 2018
    Nine years and five months since this thread started and still going strong,

    Is this a record I wonder?.

    And great thread it is too! :):):):):)

    Well done MW.
     
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    #158 bondinchas, Mar 4, 2018
    It strikes me that there seems to be just two distinct types of chastity contract.
    The first is a comprehensive and detailed menu of things that the bottom wants to be topped with, I would suspect that most are written by the submissive.
    The other is a simple one sentence statement from the dominant Keyholder that she's in charge. Period.
     
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    #159 PauloChaste, Mar 5, 2018
    Spot on!

    Long before my wife knew about my chastity desires I fantasised about the contracts I discovered online!
    Then when it was all out in the open I told her about the contracts I had read and how lots of couples use them etc. My wife just said so what and I don't care what other people do!
    I basically do what she tells me to do and it works.
     
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    #160 filltee, Mar 5, 2018
    I think you missed the most significant one of all
    The one where the denied one says .... X is in Charge.
     
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    #161 Nicoftime, Mar 5, 2018
    I would agree with a majority of contracts, complicated and overtly sexual in nature. I will say there are exceptions.

    My kh did a lot of digging and Internet searches on the subject of chastity and FLR. It interested her and she’s not the kind of person that does anything halfway...if we were going to do this we’re doing it. She’s the one that wrote it and printed it out and gave to me. We have added to it (without writing anything down) and subtracted from it as her desire for those things ebbed and flowed.

    It isn’t something we have ever referred to or talked about since giving it to me. It just is. Some of it is sexual in nature but most of it is centered on making sure we communicate, keep me in a submissive state of mind, and allows for my doting and pampering behavior is a priority.

    So not everyone has a complicated sexualized contract written by the caged.
     
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    #162 Joroincharge, Mar 5, 2018
    Much truth in that. But there is still I reckon a grey area in between. Relationships like this are not set in stone: there is or can be an ongoing transition in between.
     
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    #163 filltee, Mar 7, 2018
    We were discussing contracts last night.
    She was saying she does not want us to have one, well not a written one, as it may limit her and may need to be in a state of constant revision.

    As regards a verbal one she said this is it barring change.

    If I want to be locked and denied by her and for her these are the rules

    I may only orgasm if permission is given but must accept it may never be given
    I may not ever ask for permission to orgasm
    I don't get unlocked without permission and promise to go back in when told.
    Anything else I am free to ask about and will accept it's always her decision.
     
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    #165 Mr M, Apr 10, 2018
    My Agreements:


    I will be a strong and deliberate man who will encourage a romance and attempt normal seduction to maintain a loving and intimate sex life, with the exception that I cannot release without permission. I will remain attractive by doing ......


    I am fit and groomed: exercise and eat well, shaven


    present: home when home, always in contact via text or phone


    celebrating: remember and celebrate life events


    travel: organize fun trips and vacations for the family


    romantic: providing romance and adventure in our connection


    serving: Taking care of you and your body, family and home, massages anytime requested.


    [Add anything you may like]


    As part of the benefits for having to administer a key, I will provide to the key holder:


    Acceptance of a Female Led Relationship with authority and privilege given


    Freedom to be: you can go out as you want (although I want to come when I can) to be you


    Hotwife and flirt: Allowed to enjoy the company of other men or women without guilt or worry of consequence. Hotwifing doesn't require permission but requires disclosure. Kissing, heavy petting, touching, etc ok (high school boundaries), no penis in vagina sex without permission.


    Providing regular massage to body and feet without request.


    Daily cleaning/making of house, dishes, faceplate and bed.


    Maintaining activities in family calendar


    [Add anything you like]


    I give you full control over my freedom from chastity and my orgasm to maintain my commitments in this agreement.


    I accept punishments for not honoring my commitments and to reset my understanding / devotion.


    What this may mean if you agree:


    KH will remain the same loving and amazing wife with all the privileges of an FLR.


    KH may be stricter: Direct to lock and unlock. Holding back your orgasm when KH wants and only allowing if KH has given permission. Review and approve GOO jail card requests.

    KH might not show as much mercy: Follows through on punishments earned, Enforce all punishments. Performed on a set day. Even if no bad behaviors are observed, a weekly spanking or a punishment maybe given to affirm agreement + any accrued punishments.


    You agree that you have been warned; it is not just a kink, but a commitment… and it is up to KH when and if applied.


    Foundational Agreements and Potential Punishments to Prevent Unruly Behavior and 24/7 sexual fantasy:


    Always Earned: Good behavior earns rewards and maybe my orgasm. It is expected that creativity, romance and seduction is how you earn them. Talking about chastity or kinks may get you no where. The agreements for honesty, chastity, permission and confession are to be used to ensure this agreement is the principle agreement and focus.


    Always honest: I am forthcoming immediately if breaking the agreements and honest in questions asked (delayed notification at confession doubles punishment strikes)


    Caught dishonest: No O for the Two months; if cheating my lock up also get PA Chastity


    Always on: when put under lock, it stays on until permission to remove, no pull outs


    Caught: removing or pulling out PA Chastity


    Always permission: Sexual touching of self (penis or butt), orgasms, internet porn and must be disclosed by confession day or considered dishonest


    Touching or porn: 10 punishment strikes per offense


    Unauthorized O: 20 punishment strikes per offense


    Unauthorized release during sex results in cleanup + Always Permission Punishment


    Always Confession: When asked to confess, you will provide confessions and tally; at that time I may deliver a weekly maintenance spanking / punishment minimum + earned. If applied this will be accepted freely and thanked. For each strike/tally, you may beg for reduction of sentence but will receive a combination of the following (but not limited to as repeat behavior may escalate):


    1 day = 1 strike

    1 spanking = 1 strike

    1 hour with plug = 1 strike

    1 day wearing women's tops/bra/stockings/collar out for humiliation = 10 strikes

    Forfeit of monthly GOO Jail card = 20 strikes


    One request per week to discuss fantasy/agreement is allowed, more is subject to a punishment as seen fit.


    Get out of jail card every 1 months: Get out jail card entitled orgasm only with permission, but allows specified touching. Stroking or prostate play, to a self-ruined orgasm if no permission given(must stop just before I am about to release), toys upon approval. Duration to be specified by KH.


    Full orgasm on special occasions, hope while home, and likely none while away (only in my presence or FT).


    Allowed to be active on Chastity Mansion and read fantasy in books without permission.
     
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    #166 Lockedinlove87, Apr 15, 2018
    i love it!!! Sounds great!!!!!!
     
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    #167 bondinchas, Apr 21, 2018
    I wonder if anyone with "A Keyholder's Guide" by Georgia Green can help me out here...

    I thought I saw a reference in the book to Contracts, but now I can't find it. Did I read it somewhere else? I'm so sure it was in that book. You know when you go word-blind...!

    If anyone knows or can spot where she mentions Contracts, posting the page number would be appreciated. Thanks in advance.
     
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    #168 Muzzo4you, Apr 21, 2018
    @bondinchas The only, and minor, reference to 'contract' is on page 23
     
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    #169 bondinchas, Apr 21, 2018
    Thanks Muzzo4you, I knew it was mentioned somewhere.
    My wife has recently suggested that we should have a contract, having just read that book, I was wondering if there were any further suggestions in there, but what I can do is show her the contacts in this thread as a starter...
     
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    #170 DarkKnight, Apr 21, 2018
    She speaks a bit more on contracts / agreements in "How to set up an FLR" and "Tips and Trick for keyholders: an addendum to a keyholders handbook"
     
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    #171 SmartandObedient, Apr 21, 2018
    Given my legal background, I'll be happy to review contracts if anyone needs :)
     
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    #172 Joroincharge, Jul 19, 2018
    Thanks for the recent like Rectrix. As you see, was nine years ago I drew up that one. I know quite a few others have used it, sometimes with variations, over the years, and some with great success. Looking back on it now, I still don't think I could improve on it. I put a lot of thought to it at the time.
     
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    #173 Mascara^Snake, Jul 20, 2018
    The first and foremost improvement of a contract is no contract.
     
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    #174 sissy_connie, Jul 20, 2018
    I like it :) Very Nice
     
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    #175 filltee, Jul 20, 2018
    Its old but
    rule 1) everything she says goes
    and in case of any doubts or questions go to
    rule 2) see rule one.

    easy and whats more as time goes on this gets not only easier but better.
     
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