Let me start off by saying I appreciate the fact that communities such as this exist. I am a married man (going on 5 years) and my wife and I are very happy together. I have never been unfaithful, nor has she. We have been trying to get pregnant while I am home, but I am often out of state for weeks at a time for work. I find that my habits on the road tend to carry over when I get home - smoking a lot, and masturbating even more... I'm talking about 8-12 times a night on occasion, and typically minimally 2-4 times. I mentioned to my wife that I felt this habit was impeding our progress in creating a family, and brought up the subject of a chastity cage. She was (and probably still is) put off by the idea, having grown up in a small southern town and never really been exposed to the more adventurous side of sex. In fact, I took her virginity, and am the only one she has ever made love to. Well, I'm working now, and I bought a CB-6000. It's an interesting sensation, and I hope that after acclimating myself to it over the next couple of weeks I can convince her it is for the best that I stay in it except when she is in the receptive part of her cycle and I'm home. This ought to be interesting... PS - Although I understand that this community is populated by those with a heavy interest in D/S relationships, feminization, etc., we do not partake in that lifestyle. We're just an ordinary couple, and I'm the one with the kink. Not only do I hope this cage helps create a beautiful family, but I find it arousing just to be in this thing.