Presenting the key to my Wife

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    #1 Notouchy, Oct 14, 2016
    Hi all. My wife love me wearing my chastity device but does not hold the key to the lock.
    Any idea's anybody on how I can present the key to her to make her feel special so she want to be my key cock?

    Thank you.
     
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    #2 Jasmic68, Oct 14, 2016
    By talking about it in a non sexual situation, telling her what it is and why and letting her know that it is for fun. Explain how if she held the key it would help you remove temptation. Don't tell her you deserve it or anything too excited like that. Maybe find some online blogs written specifically for this eventuality, they are out there.

    @Mistress Jules has written a book that you could consider getting as it has also been written for this exact scenario.
     
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    #3 DonnaSue, Oct 14, 2016
    In my opinion, communication is key. Tell her that you have an ongoing masturbation problem (don't we all?) and need her assistance in controlling that. Women cannot stand knowing that their man is wanking, so I would bet that she will be responsive to that request. At very least, this will get the subject on the table for discussion in a way that's non-threatening. Once she learns the benefits and pleasures of you being in controlled chastity, she will not likely want to turn back! Just my opinion.....
     
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    #4 Notouchy, Oct 14, 2016
    Thank you both for your thoughts. Really useful opinions. here goes :)
     
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    #5 danleft1, Oct 14, 2016
    What I did ... and seems to have worked well ... is of course the things stated above ... BUT, I gave here a necklace and anklet that both have Key Charms on them along with the actual keys ... so she just tossed the key (for the lock) in the drawer and said "don't you dare go in my drawer" ... and then put the anklet on as the symbol of her being my KH. She switches off between the necklace and anklet depending on what she feels like wearing.

    BTW ... I just bought her a Tiffany Key ... http://www.tiffany.com/collections/...-s+5-r+-t+-ni+1-x+-pu+-f+-lr+-hr+-ri+-mi+-pp+ ... very much so a GREAT symbol to those that KH and for the vanilla world it is Tiffany Jewelry
     
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    #7 danleft1, Oct 15, 2016
    They run in price from $150 - $5000+ ... my wife is conservative on what she will spend on jewelry, so we kept it at just over $300 (about the same price we spent on my Cage) ... seems fair :)
     
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    #9 danleft1, Oct 15, 2016
    Very nice.

    My wife prefers White gold, but usually starts off with the piece in sterling silver ... then if she actually wears it / likes it I upgrade it to the "real deal" ... so far this has been a very good thing she does because most of her jewelry sits in the box, and the few pieces she really wears are the real deal ...
     
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    #10 Notouchy, Oct 15, 2016
    I know holding key should be presented in sspecial way but a bit too fancy and more money than I would like to pay. I would rather spend that sort on money on a Behind Barz chastity belt for my self and give her the keys in a card or something or is that wrong ??
     
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    #11 Velo69, Oct 19, 2016
    90% of the time my keys are frozen in a ice block in the deep freeze. Get creative with it, go to a florist and have flowers sent with a card and the keys in the envelope?
     
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    #12 Notouchy, Oct 19, 2016
    Thanks for your comment. She has now without hesitation taking the keys for safe keeping and set a possible a release date if I am good?? For years I have been dreaming of this situation, now reality has set in but loving it.
     
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    #13 Velo69, Oct 19, 2016
    Reality can be the hardest part. Its now about you giving up some control as long as your prepared to make this her fantasy also. enjoy the time locked up serve well :p
     
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    #14 Notouchy, Oct 19, 2016
    Almost a lifestyle change, sitting to pee, personnel hygiene to maintain etc as well as mentally coming to terms with the reality that actually no matter what, you just can't unlock yourself but under control of your keyholder, for me my Wife who has taken on the role scarily well. Which I am not complaining about at all. On the plus side it definately brought us closer and without realising doing thing for her or serving her without any question like a little puppy :)
     
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    #15 jemima, Oct 19, 2016
    puppy dogs lifts up there leg to pee and don't sit down. giggle, but i wudnt do that if i was you.
     
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    #16 Notouchy, Oct 19, 2016
    Thank you for you correcting me, now being correct even when not with my Mistress :)
     
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    #17 jemima, Oct 20, 2016
    giggle, i not really.
     
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    #18 Gabriellia, Oct 20, 2016
    Unless it's a girl puppy. They squat. Sooooo there's that. Lol
     
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    #19 Notouchy, Oct 20, 2016
    Wish I had not said "like a little puppy" at all now ??
     
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