I was thinking about for this New Years resolution having my SO lock me in a chastity cage for 1 year . I realize that she would be giving up PiV sex as well for the year. She's semi vanilla for a SO however has shown some interest in the chastity trials we've tested the waters with... I thought about bringing the idea up either tonight or tomorrow when we're going out on our weekly date night. I'd love to hear if anyone has done this before, how it went or how far you got! I just want some thoughts on the idea? Anyone else interested in something similar ?
I love you enthusiasm aryxa! But if she's new to chastity I'd recommend a shorter period of lock up and then build from there getting longer each time, maybe aim to be denied for all of 2015.
PUPs got it on this one. How often have you ventured over the 15 day mark? This is the tough plateau where we men stop be bitchy and get on with life. You might try for a few weeks, or suggest a chance game earing you a random range from 3 to 6 weeks or so? What will be in it for her? Answer that first. Is there something special she has longed for? Does she enjoy oral from you? Does she like the idea of you using a sheath or you wearing a nice strap-on when she wants penetrative sex? (Don't forget, when using penetrative toys, warm them... few women like making love to corpse cold schlongs)
What is wrong with making love to your kh and getting locked up after. It keeps you chaste for her but she gets to have fun. Otherwise I can see why many SO /kh get fed up with the whole idea as there is nothing in it for them Xx wendy