Yeah well what do i say? male, early 30's and i identify as a switch. i own a MM jailbird and i have recently had a PA done so am looking for other options device wise for the future. long term i am looking for a female keyholder to engage in a much more indepth look at how things are over the typical lock n leave. sorry but whilst i am slightly bi curious this is strictly a heterosexual activity for me. i dont look at chastity in conjunction with most of the usual lumped in BDSM activities. i LOATH financial dominants with a passion. paying for a service is one thing, being used as a cash cow or as an attempted blackmail scenario is no go. yeah so any questions just ask.