Hello everyone, Well, I am a 31yr old male. Was introduced to bdsm about 6yrs ago, saw chastity devices, but never experienced it until a few months ago. Purchased the plastic cb's, lasted about a week at most due to my erections cracking the housing, and to my inability to wear it at night. My fiancé and I purchased a mature metal jail bird recently. I haven't been able to complete a full 24hrs in the device. I don't know what to do about the night time erections, and the soreness around the ring area. It puts a halt in walking at times, and have to remove it for just relief of pain. I am here to learn more and get advice to make this happen for long term. -A