A little about myself first. I'm 57 now, and married for 34 years. My wife had an affair 18 years ago and cuckolded me then. You can read about my experience with that in the forums, if you have not already done so. We have 2 grown kids with one who is 27, living with us. Her affair lasted over 2 years. Since then, as far as I know, we are happily married. Menopause has not been kind to my wife. Hot flashes, leg shakes, etc., vaginal dryness, and a loss of sex drive. My sex drive has increased, thanks to the internet and porn. I probably masturbate over 10 times a week, sometimes, if given a chance 4 times in a day. My chastity experience began about 4 years ago. I never knew anything like this even existed before the internet. I would read stories about the sub being locked in a device and the Mistress controlling him. It excited me thinking about it. Sure enough, once I searched it, I found out that there are such things as Chastity Devices. About 6 months later I purchased a CB-3000, around this time, 2004. My wife was unaware of it. I wore it a couple of weeks off and on, making sure I would be able to wear it. Once I decided it seemed like I could, I then had to present my desire to do this to my wife. For me, that was not an easy thing to do. I believe it was Mistress Sutton's site that I downloaded info about chastity and printed it up to give to my wife. I actually thought my wife might divorce me because of this, thinking I lost my mind. My next post will have me presenting the idea to my wife and her reaction.