Hi everyone, I met my wife 9 years ago and we've been married for the past five years. Iam pretty sure I have a mental illness haha, but serving her has brought me the most amount of joy I can fathom. At first she wasn't my owner, we were sort of normal and making decisions together, but I had a natural tendency to be a 'yes man' or a 'yes ma'am' because that's how I speak. When we moved into our current home several years ago she asked me if I agreed on what furniture and appliances to buy, and I loved how she responded when I told her that I trusted her decision. She just looked at me and said, "ok" and smiled at me before walking off. Our home looks wonderful thanks to her leadership. Most wouldn't guess she is my owner. I work in sales, which is odd, because I am such a macho man in real life but few outside my immediate family know she's the boss. We used to live in an apartment, but when we moved into a proper home I felt like something changed. She knew me as a kind giving person, and i just sort of became more kind and giving. I felt excited when she plopped down to watch tv because I cleaned the dishes, or how I surprised her by cleaning her car from inside out. I live in the southern US so it gets freaking hot haha. I didn't want to push a "FLR" lifestyle, but I knew this is what I wanted and hoped she would to. Mistress is a naturally selfish person. My sister warned me she was a narcissist, which I knew was true, but I liked it. She wasn't raised to be a people pleaser. She was raised to take, and I am the perfect bitch for her. Did I mention this was going to be strange? I was the one that brought up chastity. It's usually men, no different here . i've been wearing a Holy Trainer, then a Cobra Nano since March of 2022. First weekends, then alternating days, She was like a workout coach telling me to go for an extra three days. I felt spoiled from how much attention I was getting now that I was on my best behavior. I was a good boy but It didn't feel real. She felt the same, because It was a game I could say no to when I got tired. It was my idea that she could "Out" me. I've been told by others im a crazy person, but I am ok with that. She has videos where I introduce myself with my real name and hold up my driver's license before riding a dildo for 15 minutes. I know it's 15 minutes because I am timed when I do one of my sessions. I put myself in a place where I get to be her slave and she can ruin me if I disobey. She probably won't, but we don't really need my money, we're at a place where one of us could stay home. I love where our relationship has gone. I hope to talk about how great the change has been. I wouldn't go back and I hope neither does she. Talk to you guys soon.
that's one of the most romantic and sane posts i've read so far: serving Mistress is just so wonderful and feels so perfect!
Do you think she'll "grow" into more of a domineering woman in the relationship? Is that what you want? And what would be your ideal way to mix chastity into that? Regardless, I look forward to the occasional update in the months to come! Peace!