Friend, mistress, keyholder

I am looking for a submissive to own and lock in chastity.
I am incredibly blunt, but honest, and have your best interest at heart even if it may not always come across that way. I am firm, but also very devoted and loving. I love to pamper just as much as I love to dominate. If we’re first getting to know one another I genuinely feel as though there needs to be a general connection and “getting to know one another” above all else before the terms Mistress and what not start coming into play. I desire and want to have a genuine connection with one another.
I my free time I write avidly and enjoy hiking, golf, spontaneous day trips and traveling. I’m looking for someone genuine, who apart from their desire to please and submit, does not hide who they are, their thoughts and how they feel. Ideally I’m looking for a 24/7 live in situation ( relocating and everything associated with that will be discussed) and a long term relationship with the right person.