Excited about where this will lead...

Hi there - im really pleased to have found this site while researching male chastity and would love to take a minute to introduce myself to The Mansion.

I'm in a very loving relationship of 3 years, but have been unable to control my urges throughout this time. It's something I've felt I've always had to deal with alone, but now I'm with a girl i love very dearly, i decided it was time to do something about it.

I'm 32 and she is 24, we live in North Wales, UK and are self employed in the hospitality sector. I suppose we have a fairly vanilla sex life and found ourselves in a rut, making time to make love only 3 or 4 times a month. A big part of this problem has been my compulsion to masturbate in secret up to 3 or 4 times daily.

Now, however, as of 4 days ago, none of these options are physically available to me and i am so grateful for this. She is my key holder and, while the situation is very new to us both, she seems to be enjoying her role and having increased control within our relationship. She has already mentioned that the cage is "doing wonders" as I have been far more attentive to her and am contributing more to housework etc.

If there is interest from others to hear more about our first few days since locking me in, I would be very happy to share. Perhaps our way of practising chastity is a little different to others in The Mansion (from what I've read) owing to our very limited experience and finding our feet. We would certainly benefit from peoples' experience and we are both excited about where this sexual adventure will lead...