Hi everyone. I posted here a few months ago about my girlfriend and I and how she is starting to learn about BDSM. I think we had a break through a few days ago... We work together and we went though a very stressful moment when things didnt go right and she was starting to have a panic attack as she thought our company name would be ruined. I bascially took charge and grabbed her and sternly let her know that we could freak out and lose it all or take control and get through it. i am happy to say that it worked out. Later that night while laying in out hotel room we started to make love. I was on my back as she whispered in my ear about how it was all starting to make sense. She told me that she felt that I was there for her. That whenever she needed me that I was there. Even though I was the strong one she felt that it was all for her. She went on to say that at that point she realized that I belonged to her and everything I did was for her. We had spoken about crossdressing in the past and at this moment whispered in my ear how she wanted me in a collar, stockings, and high heels. How she wanted me to wear make up for her while she used me. Even though many of these things were talked about in the past it seemed different this time. Almost as if it all made sense to her. She kept on whispering that she would want me dressed up wearing heels so high that I wouldnt be able to walk. That she would like to make me crawl for an entire day as i served her. Over the next couple of days she has reminded me that she expects me to get dressed for her. What happened? Even though I know she was slowly coming along something has seemed to click in her. It is all exciting but quite shocking to me.