since we have come back from our trip in november we had some good times and bad but now these past weeks we are having problems with him going back in the cb and he keeps on saying it hurts and i sa "SO, WEAR IT" he ends up taking it off. i give him denial of touching me at times and i am mad but i guess he does not care does any one out here have ways to get him to listen and obey? i know i started a thread about a rocky time but we have had a smooth time too but i guess the rocks are back in a path that i can't understand why. This Is How It All Started he wanted to try a dog collar (that he wired to a ring) so he bought one for an anniversary gift and some time that week he made it so he could wear it around his cock and i had the remote. :jumping0046: it was that fun him crinching at times with the levels i put it at. when i wanted him to come to me when the kids were up or not he was there, those were the days :character0028::character0100:. Then he bought the cb for another mildstone in our life i do not remember but i found a box on my bed and i opened it and said "why?" he said "we talked about the idea and i thought we should start it" and i said then that night "put it on". we had it great:jumping0044: then he asked me what he should call me? and it said "madam" and and i changed what i called him b/c for some reason i felt i needed a name that i could call him in public so that is where "boy" came from. and now we are having issues with the cb he says as a boy would say "it hurts and i can"t wear it. so what do i do he knows where the spare key is and he has taken it off. :spider: this is how i feel same as the spider angry and frustrated. i thought this is what he wanted and now he has come up with these "ISSUES" am I "the madam" and he is "the boy" I like the control i had but it seems to me he is loosing it how can i get him back? I want the cb ON and with the collar attached. My thoughts are if he does not get it back on soon then i will force it on him one night after the kids in bed and take all keys away. as we do live a so called normal life style out of the house i have issues with that b/c when i get upset people can tell and lately it is b/c he is not obeying my NEEDS. so what do i tell people when they ask? so i guess i am here again to share how it started and how it is now i hope to keep this journal going and keeping boy out of it for the most part b/c this is my post not his:sign0066: as i put at the end of all my posts :butterfly: i like butterflys and purple so it fits me nicely.