Maybe ask him if he wants you to be happy. "Don't I deserve to be happy? Don't you want me to be happy?" type stuff. Maybe offer the privilege of...
Maybe start with locking up without her telling you to, then asking if she's okay with it. Basically, asking her permission for it to become the...
Thank you! It's different for everyone, but my modest goal is to crack a month! I've done around 3 weeks a few times, with 1-2 weeks being a...
...after about 15 years of lurking! This forum was a big part of my "discovery", back in 2008, and helped me transform a longterm vanilla marriage...