Hey Everyone I'm curious as to how many of you are virgins? Do you wish to remain a virgin? Is your keyholder a virgin as well? Just a few things I've been wondering about all you people on here in chastity I'm 27, (28 soon) and in chastity for my goddess. We see it as a way of protecting my virginity and keeping me pure. This isn't for religious reasons at all, but I see my virginity as sacred and needs protection. Do any of you feel the same way?
I think you should put your cage away and get down to business. Lay some pipe, GIT-R-DONE! You need to enjoy sex first. You can then return to chastity play. You will have an appreciation for what that pussy feels like as you lick it with your cock locked up.
We probably would have done already but my Goddess lives in a different country. So my chastity is keeping me a virgin for her.
Mistress Scarlett has a list of virgins and BAVs born again virgins. I don't see your virginity as sacred i see your suffering as sacred. How does your goddess express her sexuality. Either or, i congradulate you for living your beliefs.
My goddess likes to keep me a virgin, but if we lived together it would only be a matter of time before she took my virginity. Im certainly not suffering in chastity, I actually prefer to be caged. I feel safe.
To each their own... Everybody wants something different from life. Have once heard the advice to "bang your brains out" when you're in your 20s. Still plenty of time to lock that thing up! Knowing how good it feels makes it even kinkier to be locked up, teased and denied...
Yeah I appreciate that, but I also think there is something in being a virgin in chastity. To me, it would make my first time even more special to be unlocked by my goddess to then takes my virginity. I've always seen sex as being a very special, intimate thing, and chastity is keeping me safe for my goddess.
I am happy for you being excited for it. I would urge caution- I used to frequent a large subred that involves intimacy issues between couples (dead bedrooms) and it was astonishing how many times people who waited for marriage wound up incompatible. Your sexual language is so important in a relationship that to have it shut down for so long could have disastrous results, especially with someone you have never met...
I appreciate your concern, however we have been very open about our sexual language. We are very compatible in that regard, and we get along so well. Many people have shared before that waiting for their first time is actually very rewarding, as it becomes way more special and memorable. I don't see virginity as being an issue. It's only an issue if people make it an issue.
It's taken me many years to realize that we aren't incompatible. We just never learned the art of intimacy. Now that I've come to realize that great sex / intimacy starts outside the bedroom and is 90% between the ears, our physical intimacy has taken off like never before. Chastity is a guardrail that keeps me from taking matters into my own hands or going too far during the heat of love making, and it enhances our overall intimacy because it keeps me motivated.
There are merits in both approaches I suppose! The thought of never knowing what it's like to be inside a woman and the other where being inside a woman becomes a distant memory!