So here we are 2020 My love and me after taking quite a break from chastity, kinky sex and whatever decided around X-Mas that life had taken enough from us and there had to be some changes. puzzling together the good discoveries of the last years we came up with: I may ask her every morning to wear my belt for her. If she asks me if I would like to have an orgasm, I will kindly ask her to be denied a little bit longer. (Except she uses the magic words „go get him“) all theses other rules we once started with, contracts, whatever... it all went into the garbage. the first surprise hit me on New Years Eve, we had friends at home for a small party, and after the fireworks she excused us for a second and led me to our bedroom. My belt was like a present with a red tie on my bed, she smirked at me and asked me to get it on, as we have 2020. Since then I am again wearing it with two very short breaks due work dates with no usable bathrooms. The Big change to former years, is that she is taking care that I relock latest in the mornings when I ask my daily question ( a wonderful mindfuck by the way). Until now I had two releases, completely unexpected and both in a moment when I started to crave for a longer lockup/denial period. At the first one I even tried to seduce her keeping me denied, which she laughed away pointing out that whatever Tiger/Lion-Superman I am, she is in charge of my Orgasms and so I shall do as she tells me to... (Don‘t play with Capricorns believe me ) And then today, in a moment of complete hectic and stress when kissing goodbye for a few days (business trip), she whispers in my ear that before she arrives expects me to be belted again and to send her photos of her belted tiger and the sealed key.... UH !!! What is going on this year ? Let‘s see where the ride takes us....
We had had some stress going into the holidays and took a short break. We too are back at the lifestyle. This sounds all too familiar. I am pushing sir to his limit and keeping him on his toes. I love these surprises and he gets even more ramped up during those times. Enjoy and savor the moments while you can. Just remember, it's about the communication between you both and what suits you that makes this lifestyle what it is between the two of you.
Little update: Life is taking its toll again, but this time we didn‘t loose it Well, the belt is on hold at the moment, as I have too many dates, situations etc, that would interfere too much... But instead of giving up again, we/she ? came around with a wonderful new mindfuck ! Asked me what I would offer for an orgasm or a ruined one. Well I said 12 days for an O, 6 for the ruined one, just said it to say something. A few days later, she took me to the bedroom, spreadeagled me and then switched it to 6 days for a full O, and 12 for a ruined one....thought loudly about the possibility of adding them up in case she gives more than one..... And luckily gave me a single full one !!! This Saturday will be the next round and dammit, I was never so frightened of ruined ones as right now !!!