This a question for those who were identified and raised as girls, who now identify as a woman. The reason being, childhood socialization plays a key part. The guestion likely applies more to the silent female reader than those who are openly a Mistress or "kinky." A women in her twenties likely has a different perspective from one in her fifties. Older women may want to explain how their answer to the question may or may not have changed over time. Reading many of the posts in these forums, men very frequently mention their partner is totally vanilla and not into kink. Question: How much does social pressure and acceptance play in a woman's willingness to explore more than PIV, fellatio, and cunnilingus? Do women worry more than a little about what their neighbors and family will think of them if they find out? Are women truly not into kink? Conservative society still gets in a lather if famous women post nudes or videos of vanilla sex. On the flip side, I see 21 year old women opening identifying as a Mistress, pegging their partner.