Originally posted in a different forum, but was suggested to post here also. I brought up the idea of male chastity to my wife about 3 years ago. But first a little background info about us. I'm a married 49 year old straight male. 2nd marriage. Sex has always been very important to me. I'll refer to myself as K. My wife, who I'll refer to as B, is a year older than me. She enjoys sex too, but it's not a big deal to her. As a teen, I discovered that I enjoyed anal play. It wasn't long before I was shoving everything that looked pleasurable up my ass. On one occasion, it felt extra good. I picked up the pace and began thrusting with some extra force. I had a huge mind blowing orgasm and never touched my cock. I was just a teenager and didn't know things like this were even possible! From that day forward, hands free orgasms have been a topic of interest. Fast forward to a few years ago. I'm looking up hands free orgasm porn and come across a video of a crossdresser in stockings and heels. Riding a dildo while wearing a pink chastity cage. I had never seen or heard of male chastity before. Sure enough, as they rode that cock, the one inside the cage flopping, streams of cum came out of the end and landed on the floor. Now my curiosity is really going! Fast forward a few months, and I bring up the idea of male chastity to my wife. She thought it was a little silly for a man to willingly put his cock inside of a cage. She didn't understand why I would prefer that over being able to freely have PIV sex with her. But she was willing to give it a try and told me to order one. So I did and as soon as it arrived, she told me to go put it on. It wasn't easy. My cock was getting hard with excitement, plus being a rookie, I didn't order the right size ring. It looked like a sausage trying to squeeze out of its casing. I walked into the room with it on and B said "That looks very uncomfortable" and looked at me with a sad expression. She was right. It was very uncomfortable. I only wore it a few times and ended up tossing it in the trash. I did my research and now have 3 different cages and all 3 fit me perfectly. More to write later...
My one month lockup came to a close when we went on a spur of the moment vacation. The trip included flights, so Mrs allowed me to be unlocked for the weekend. I was mentally prepared to be caged immediately after we arrived home from the trip, but she felt we both were in need of a break from it. I'd been unlocked the last 2 weeks. I started to wonder when the next lockup was coming. I didn't mention it, if I was to be caged, it needed to be her idea and on her terms. We had a small argument yesterday and I hurt her feelings. Nothing really came from it until bedtime. I was told the cage would be going back on, but first I needed to get busy with my tongue. Then the wand. A big wet spot purposely done on my side of the bed so I'd have to sleep in it. She wanted PIV sex and after I came, she told me to remember how that felt because I wouldn't be feeling it again for a long time. Within minutes, the cage was locked, and she said it would be longer than 30 days this time. I'm hoping to be freed for my birthday, but that's not until April. So here we go again...