Just found out that my wife will need hip replacement and surgery on her back. She will be out of commission at least 2 months or up to several months, depending on what the spinal specialist says. My chastity and domestic training will help both of us through her long recovery. However, it will no longer be a game but our reality. In the long run it will ease the pain that my wife is in now and allow us to have PIV sex again. I cringe every time I see the look of pain on her face when she gets up from sitting and starts to walk. That is why I started learning how to do the housework. I figured that the training will come in handy soon and it will. Sorry for posting this here but I kind of feel that this is my special family. I never discussed our unorthodox sex life and my wife's bisexuality with anyone, even our closest friends, except for her lovers, of course. We come from a time where none of the things we did were socially acceptable and could impact your life if found out. This was the first place I ever let others know about our sex life which accounts for my numerous long posts as I have bottled all this up for 43 years. We do not see this as a sad time because we were told a few years ago that this would happen and it will relieve the constant pain that my wife is in. She will be able to do the things she cannot do now and our sex life will not be controlled by her limited movement. It will be good to have PIV sex again after many years. She cannot spread her legs without pain so this will eliminate that problem. No need for any of you to say anything as it is understood that you wish her the best. As I said, it is not a sad time, just a nervous time and eager to get this thing over with finally.
After reading the title of this post it sounds like I am concerned about me. I could care less about whether I have sex or not. We will be suspending our sexual games until my wife is healed. I will focus my attention on helping her and making her comfortable. We will lead a normal life for awhile and see what happens afterwards. I may not be posting here while my wife is in recovery.
Funny thing just happened. She decided on just the hip surgery for now, after Easter. The back stuff can wait because it is not causing her pain, just muscle atrophy which exercise can control. The funny part is that I just told her that we should go back to our old sex life and she said a loud NO and accused me of trying to get out of my promise of having her control my orgasms. She expects me to not have any orgasms when she is recovering. My wife is something else. Always was game for anything no matter what. I have had a fantastic sex life due to her. How many wives would bring home women to cater to my sexual fetishes? I am one lucky guy.