Looking for Tetherspout Experience

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    Hello everyone,

    Now that I finally have a comfortable cage that I can wear long-term, I am looking to upgrade to something more secure. I would love to hear members' experiences with tetherspouts.

    The idea of having a secure device without a piercing is very appealing to me. However, I am uncertain about many aspects of the tetherspouts. Advice and guidance is greatly appreciated.

    1.) How safe / dangerous is the insertion process? Any proposition that begins with "stick this up your urethra with dental floss, then pinch it through your shaft" doesn't inspire much confidence. What happens if the floss breaks? Do you now have a metal rod trapped up your urethra? Additionally, is it possible for the objects to get pushed up too far and get sucked inside?

    2.) What happens if you become aroused while inserting / removing the device? It seems like that would affect the interaction significantly, as your member could double or triple in size.

    3.) Is the device suitable for long-term wear? Having foreign objects inside your urethra is usually not a good plan for long-term health, but people with PA piercings do it all the time, so there must be some threshold that is relatively safe.

    4.) It seems to me that the tetherspouts could cause irritation to your penis, which might result in swelling. If so, could that swelling then make it impossible to remove the device?

    These are just example questions that I have. I am eager to hear any and all tetherspout experiences, as I wish to be as informed as possible before making my decision.

    Thank you!
     
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    I think if you search you’ll find som threads here about that
     
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    I have already read them all. It would be inappropriate to ask a question without first reading what's available.
     
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    I am also curious about emergency removal. Almost all cages can be quickly removed once unlocked, but it seems the tetherspouts require much more investment. You have to have an extra spout and floss on hand, in addition to the device key. Then, you have to go through the process of threading, insertion, rotation, etc.

    It seems as though, if you needed to remove the device immediately for some emergency, that simply wouldn't be possible. It would take ~5-10 minutes at least, and maybe hours if you can't access the right tools.
     
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    First, let me say I appreciate that you searched and read the old posts. Not enough people make the effort.

    You would have read about my recent experience, and I have not tried it since so nothing new to add.

    But I will confirm that removing it takes some effort and time, and is likely going to change the vibe or dynamic going on, unless of course the dynamic IS removing the tetherspout.

    The original site at one time offered a threaded ball that could go over the threaded end of the spout making it safe and comfortable for use during PIV. I kind of like that option myself but was a no-go from my wife.
     
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    I recall seeing you consider the tetherspout, but I'm afraid I don't remember reading about your experiences. Care to link to the relevant thread?
     
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    I tried these, although they had no stock in the size I really wanted, and didn't know if or when they'd get more.

    I didn't bother with floss. You can insert the rod into the urethra, then the retainer. Getting the rod through the retainer hole is the tricky bit, but you can feel and manipulate them from outside the shaft. That's where the floss comes in if you need it.

    I have metal ones, and a magnet which can help retrieve anything you struggle with. I wouldn't bother with the nylon ones.

    Hard to imagine how floss could break so readily, but worst-case you'd pee it out.

    Being aroused makes no difference, as the meatus really doesn't alter in size, and that's what you're really dealing with here.

    I don't think I would have tried them without having already experienced urethral sounds. I learned some things about my own anatomy with those, although I'm not nearly as adventurous with them as some people.
     
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    Thank you for the reply.

    I have zero experience with anything urethra-related, which is one of the reasons I have so many questions. It just seems so strange to me that someone could be so comfortable with all those tiny parts potentially getting stuck inside them.

    What do you mean, "Worst-case, you'd pee it out?"
     
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    I mean I can't imagine floss even breaking that way, let alone losing some of it inside the urethra, particularly as you'd be holding both ends outside the urethra before any of that happens. But even if all that did somehow happen, the urethra is designed to expel anything that's inside it (which is how precum appears). Yet even if it somehow did not do that, a piece of floss would be flushed out the next time you pee.
     
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    I'm not concerned with floss getting stuck up there. I'm concerned with the tetherspout getting stuck up there. Is it not dangerous to have a "free-floating" object shoved up there?
     
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    https://tetheredchastity.blogspot.com/

    Shows the insertion.
    For me the crucial point was to go to,custom manufactured retainers and spouts as titanium devices.
    I altered the shape and got the exact length which I needed.
    I also smothered the edges of the thread.
    It is now possible to insert and remove fast.
    The parts are not all freely moving.
    During insertion the floss will keep,everything together until the final position is reached. I am using a safety nut to counter the spout with the Steelheart.
    Removal is done by pushing the spout through the retainer and in most cases the retainer flips by 90 deg. The index finger sits below the spout at the bottom of the penis and pushes the spout upwards.
    When the sizing is done correctly the retainer is moved with a little bit of resistance through the meatus and the spout will follow. All a matter of seconds.
    There is no difference if flacid or full erect.
     
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    Having been curious since I saw Tetherspout a long time ago, I've been playing with the knock-off version available on Amazon. While the options are more limited, it has been worth playing with it to better understand while I decide whether or not to invest in titanium, etc.

    It is surprising how effective it is. Once I found the size that worked for me (I just ordered a few, because they are cheap), a little lube allowed a pain-free insertion. I was amazed how strong it is once inserted... there's no realistic way to pull it out given the levels of force I'm willing to apply when out of my cage, never mind if I was trying to pull out the back of a cage.

    Like breaking in a cage, I wore it for a few hours the first time, then a few hours more, then inside the cage but not fixed to anything, and had no problems.

    Then I used some stainless steel wire to fashion a hook which holds it in the cage. I had a little pinching at first, but some bending and reorienting resulted in a comfortable experience.

    I have to say, it's a pretty serious mind-fuck.

    My current cage (my avatar) is a very good fit for me, and I'm generally locked all the time, excepting bike rides and (increasingly rare) sex. While I have never pulled out, I'm pretty sure that given lube, limpness, and time, I could. That knowledge in the back of my mind was both a comfort, and a source of the "it's not real" feeling.

    It is now real. I cannot pull-out. I am fully dependent on my wife's release of the key. Yeah, I can cut it off, but the retaining wire being inside the cage makes it challenging)

    I've been playing with this for about 8 weeks now, and I have been wearing it pretty much continuously, excepting Saturday mornings where it comes off for a bike ride and cleaning.
     
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    Can you please share links to the Tetherspouts on Amazon?
     
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    If you are looking for a 1:1 replacement for the original stuff on Amazon, I think you will fail.
    I got mine custom made by a local specialist who works for decades with titanium for body jewelry.
    Since I own some original sets I could create the necessary drawings to take care for the modifications I wanted.
    Even with the experience I had before, it took 2 iterations. But over all faster and cheaper.
    And corrosion free.
     
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    To add... I've been playing around with this both to secure my 'normal' cage (avatar), as well as a CagInk Cellmate2.

    The normal cage uses a stainless steel wire that hooks into the spout at one end, and ends in a loop that goes over the posts connecting to the ring on the other end. It's not removable when the cage is locked, so pullout is impossible.

    For the Cagink (which I'm just playing around with and don't normally wear... it's a novelty...), a stainless steel wire goes from the top to bottom air holes and is locked. Pullout is also not possible. In addition, the electrodes are covered over with tape, with one of one of the electrodes having a wire attached to the wire holding the spout, and one leading to larger metal contact at the base. The shocking function is much more consistent, and also much more of an OUCH than the location before. It went from a barely-feel-able mosquito sting previously, to a hornet sting where I have a really hard time getting myself to push the button. This spout makes the Cagink a much more "real" device, both in terms of security and "training effectiveness"... now it's just too bad the app sucks so much.
     
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    Hello. Thank you for the info.

    Have you had any trouble with the insertion / removal process? Swelling, bleeding, things getting stuck in the urethra, etc.? I'm also curious as to how urination works while the spout is inserted. Does it not impact the stream in any way, or make cleaning difficult?
     
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    Do you have any updates? I am still seeking tetherspout experience, but this thread has been dormant for quite a while.
     
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    You don‘t need special equipment for removal. After the connection of the spout from the cage is gone, you simply push the spout through the retainer. This can be done by a completely safe and round object. The only requirement is, that the diameter fits through the retainer.
    The spout is not sucked into the urethra, you can feel it from the outside and by carefully pressing it upwards it will help getting the retainer out.
    Both parts must have smooth surfaces and a loose fit.
    If you need a lot of force to insert the retainer don’t do it, because the same force is needed to get it out again, and there is no finger to help from inside.
     
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    So, to be clear, you do need some type of equipment to assist in removal, yes? You mentioned a completely safe, round object. Most of the time, I see tetherspout removal tutorials use an additional spout to assist in removal. Apart from that, I am struggling to imagine what items I might be carrying around offhand that I'd feel comfortable sticking in my urethra.
     
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    I use a 1ml syringe. You can get them sterile, in any drug store. Insertion depth is app. 1/2 inch. Any other questions?
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    #24 paulsavin1701, Sep 26, 2023
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    TS1.Putting in the spout.jpeg TS2. Sliding the retaining ring in.jpeg TS3. Pulling on the spout - this babe aint moving.jpeg TS4. Cock through the chastity Ring.jpeg TS5. All Finished LOCKED and SECCURE.jpeg Hi All,

    I thought I would chip in. I bought a tetherspout kit of aliexpress a few months ago. I was a bit afraid of trying it... What would happen in the spout went too far in.. .What if I couldn't get the retainer in?

    I decided to give it a try TODAY. I've worn it for 3 hours, and just removed it. I will probably have it on for longer in due course - and I'll probably use an ring rather than a padlock.. I can't wait. I'm excited.

    Anyway - it wasn't actually that scary to apply. I didn't have any floss, and I just used spit for lube.

    I've attached Pictures. ACTUALLY these pictures are when I removed the spout.

    INSTALLATION. Spout and retainer go into the urethra really bloody easily. Hard bit is rotating the retainer so that the spout can then go through the tube. I expect this might be easier using the floss method - but it only took a few seconds.
    REMOVAL.The hard bit is sliding back the Spout down into the urethra, and then squashing the ring flat.. BUT Then pushing the spout back up the urethra pushes the ring, sideways up through the snake's eye...

    In picture 3 I'm REALLY pulling on the spout - it wasn't going to go anywhere!!! I think I could easily hang a weight!

    It was SUCH a thrill (mindfuck) to actually realise that if I locked the keys away, there was no removing this babe!!!!
     
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    So - I didn't need any special equipment, but I think it might help.
     
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