The joy of love, acceptance and enthusiasm

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    Hi all,
    Long time lurker (7 years), joined a few months ago to ask questions about PAs, but I thought I'd write a little more about my situation.
    Discovered chastity about 7 years ago when trying to prove my fidelity to my then partner (BTW never cheated on anyone in my life). I know it was the wrong reason, but it opened up a whole new world to me. She was a reluctant participant, but the relationship was in a bad place then and ended after a further 2 years.
    I then met someone else who wasn't into kink at all. Convinced myself that I could live without it, but I was still playing the game imaginarily in my head. Anyway that relationship ended.
    I decided to contact my first love, and mutual virginity taker, who had contacted me 2 years previously when I was in a relationship, and things didn't go any further at that time.
    Well, it was like we'd never been apart for 30 odd years. We got on so well, then the flirting started.
    She jokingly said that she was very demanding, which pricked my sub ears up. So I jokingly commented to fish for info, turns out I was right.
    Only She was sub, but was turned on by the things I liked.
    We had our first second date, and I went wearing my cage, which she knew about. The chemistry was there right from the off, and I handed over my keys. Even though she was going on holiday the next day.
    Over time, we have worked out our dynamic. I am the sub. But part of my sub duties is to satisfy her the way she likes. So I sometimes, or more regularly, have to dominate her in the bedroom. A sub domming in a sub role is a real mindf**k, but exciting at the same time.
    She chose the name, Keeper, for herself, and settled on Floppy for me.
    She has done things for/to me that I would never have dreamed could come true. Whippings, tease and denial, ruined O's, humbler, used as furniture, worshipping, CFNM, pegging, prostate massage.
    Even found ways of doing simple things in public. Last week her laces came undone and she had me kneel down and tie them. Then patted my head to say good boy, heavenly.
    We have discussed future cucking, which she knows she has my acceptance for. Don't know if this will happen in the future, but either way doesn't matter cos that's her decision.
    We have agreed to live FLR, but this won't be complete until we live together.
    She is so open minded and non judgemental, and has told me never to be afraid to mention anything.
    I asked her permission to write this, which she was excited about.
    Anyhow, I just thought I'd put this here for anyone interested.
    We are already making plans for our future life together. My first love and last love.
    I love her dearly, so excited for our future life together, and the title explains everything.
     
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    Sounds amazing
     
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    Thank you, it is.
     
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    Did you already got your PA?
     
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    Yeah, 5 weeks ago
     
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    So we got pierced at the same time. I got a vertical clit hood piercing and my husband got caged.
    Are you already able to wear a cage over the piercing? Not for security yet, obviously.
     
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    That's exciting for you.
    My previous cage was custom made, with no room for PA. Letting it settle for 12 weeks, then I'll be gauging up in increments of 1mm at a time, with 4 week periods in between. I'm at 3.25mm now, aiming for 5mm or 6mm. Then I'll buy another custom cage.
     
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    Congratulations!
     
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    Thanks
     
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    One thing that helped my piercing heal was wearing a cage. I got a cheap steel one that had a vertical opening at tip, that way when ring pushed against cage it would go through the opening between bars.

    It was really nice that the piercing was covered by cage and that the ring didn’t twist or get bumped. I bought it about 3/4 inch bigger than my flaccid state, which was enough room to have the ring inside without touching undies or anything.
     
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    Congrats! Sounds like an amazing life you have with an even more amazing life ahead of you!
     
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    Thanks
     
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    Awesome to get back in touch with somebody like that. You have past history and now a chance for a future together. :+1:
     
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    Thanks, she never went out of my thoughts all of those years, her likewise. We feel so lucky to be given this chance, and even luckier that it turns out that we have the same kink interests.
     
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