Marriage was failing due to my chronic masturbation/porn habits. Every relationship I'd ever introduced chastity in failed shortly after. So, as a Hail Mary, walked into livingroom in nothing but CB6000S with a key. It was Friday, I figured we might have a fun, sexy weekend before the marriage completely imploded. That was 11 years ago (3/26/2011)... She taken to it like a fish to water. Joyously, giddily happily married owned subby. Goddess went through menopause about 2 years after the click. Since then, I've truly come to learn the meaning of being submissive. I wouldn't trade this for the world.
Even after menopause, she still can enjoy great sex with pleasure.. in fact.. with the penis locked up.. couples are nudged towards seeking other ways in intimacy that would bring satisfaction for each other.. females are encouraged to explore even more as child bearing years are firmly behind..
Great to hear your experience. Like you I had a masturbation problem, and was neglecting my wife. A year ago I found out about male chastity, talked to my wife about the idea, bought a cock cage and we haven’t looked back. We have a relationship now where my wife gets all my attention, with my cock (caged or uncaged) rarely gets to cum. We both notice the change in my behaviour when I am denied orgasm; wish we tried this years ago.
Many have said the same thing about wishing they would have discovered this years ago. I have said once a man is married to his wife he should be fitted with a cage for her to control. Happy wife/happy life! My wife will never go back to the vanilla ways.
Welcome to our community. I'm glad to hear of your success and hope you continue to enjoy your journey.
You are right.. i have said several times, piv sex is only for pro-creation, not for recreation.. the penis should only be used to impregnate the wife.. once she is done with his sperm.. it should be locked away and he lived a life of celibracy and submission to her… how i wish marriage course being made mandatory..
Trust me, I've actively sought out avenues. Unfortunately, my Wife's health has been very poor for many years leaving Her with a number of conditions that make nearly every type of sex unavailable. She has a prolapse vagina, and refuses to have any surgery to repair it. It hurts like "a hot poker" to insert a very well lubed pinky finger tip to the first knuckle. When when she's aroused. She has had more than 100 UTIs in since menopause started. On the rare occasion She's not having a UTI, on antibiotics for it, or recovering from the yeast infection, She absolutely doesn't want to risk mouth germs in such an infection prone place. She's diabetic... So that also a thing that compounds everything. And She had explosive colitis, so any time that's flaring up, all bets are off. Then there's the two heart attacks, the broken hip, the orthostatic hypotension and syncope.. We very occasionally have oral using Lorals latex barriers, and occasionally analingus. More often our sexual tension dispatched with me riding Her strap on, or one of the many toys we've amassed. Or, She does enjoy whipping me... I know everyone wants to help and they always have the solution, and appreciate the effort. I'm not an idiot, I've got an amazing kink imagination. We've found what works for us.