Hello, the last few days I was thinking about how I could make my cage pullout proof. But I am not very crafty myself, so maybe you could help me out with your ideas. I thought about a kind of (open) glans ring, that would be inside the tube. Lockable from the outside with a small lock or the security screw of my cage, so that it's "connected" to the cage and would be held in place by the bars of the cage. Once I slide the penis in, I'd lock that thing, so that it gets a bit tighter inside and I cant pull my penis out. Obviously it would have to be a smaller diameter than the tube itself. As i still have a little bit space left in the tube, that could be possible. I could just get it custom build, but as I am not sure whether my idea is really practical or comfortable, I don't wanna pay too much money on it. I already was in the hardware store and looked around, but didn't really get any inspiration. I also didn't find any "lockable" glans rings on the internet or something like that. Best option would probably be a open ring, that has a thread where i could use the security screw. I guess nothing exactly like that in the needed size exists Maybe someone can help me out here and has an idea
I'm a pussy If you don't wear the cage and are in a situation where the PA shouldn't be noticed, you can just not wear anything in that hole right? I mean the PA hole won't close itself in the span of a few hours/days right? Like with earring holes, they grow closed again after enough time, when you don't wear earrings and that's probably gonna happen to a PA hole as well, but it takes a few weeks minimum I guess? And how does peeing work in a PA cage? Is it just splattering everywhere? And without a cage? can you still use an urinal?
As a recent recipient of a PA, I feel like I'll chime in on this. As @Jarad said, it really isn't as painful as you'd think. I don't know about a 0 out of 10 tho lol. The longer you let it heal the slower it will close up. You can definitely go hours without jewelry in there if it has been a few months. I put mine back in after PIV sex just so I don't forget. I can't comment on the peeing in the cage yet. From what I hear, sitting down is still preferred. A urinal is possible.
You're welcome. There was a time where I also wasn't ready. I also didn't think it was possible due to nerve endings in my urethra causing a burning sensation when I pee ever since I was a kid. I'm Soo stuck on chastity working for me that I have come to realize if I am to get past every single cage not working for my anatomy, falling out, pulling out that the last option was a PA. In the long run I've already spent more on cages than I did for the piercing. It just makes sense however it's 100% your decision. Trust me, I've been to the workbench to try and make ALL my cages work better. I've melted, soldered, bent, wired, tapped, glued, and almost got a welder solely for my cage to fabricate. I've been there. Just wish someone had told me a long time ago that if I was serious about chastity, save lots of money and frustration and just let some girl make a second hole in my penis.
Yes, I too have spent a lot of money already on all kind of cages. I might go for a PA in the future, but as for self locking that's not something I wanna do know.
I try not to actively advertise in the forums, but I feel i would be remiss if I didn't mention an alternative to piercings for anti-pullout: the Tetherspout technology. See Tethered Male Chastity for an intro. I wrote that blog back in 2015 so don't pay too much attention to the rather primitive locking methods described in there. See my photo albums here for examples of more recent designs. The original inventor/seller (Tether Products) is pretty much out of stock lately, with meager hope of restocking, but I have been machining and selling equivalent parts (made of Titanium), on an on-demand basis over the last few years. PM me if curious/interested.
I don't now about that's gonna happen with 00 gauge (10mm) PA hole... I like my PA jewellery, but I pee not standing
I have tried all the suggestions here including piercings and eventually gave up. I then tried the honour method which is okay but that loses some of the symbolism of a cage and seems a bit pointless. I agree that a piercing is the way to go but a pa is pretty inconvenient for peeing. I have used a foreskin piercing but after a while it becomes sore. A foreskin piercing is fairly unintrusive unlike the pa and is easy to do yourself. My current experiment is to have two (or possibly more) foreskin piercings and rotate between them. Also I have done away with the ball and squeezed the ring shut and sealed the join with a dab of strong glue. The latter does wear off after a time when this happens I change piercing holes and reglue. It is 100 times better to be truly locked rather than pretending.
I had a frenum piercing around 12 years ago, it fully healed quickly in around 6 weeks, no changes to function. Every GF I have had has loved it. My GF/KH recently bought a frenum anchored steel cage which means I cannot pullout and the only way out is with tools. I highly recommend a frenum piercing. It's much less commitment than a PA and does the job.
A custom one... This one: https://badassworkroom.com/collections/custom-chastity-cage/products/ba-03 With the frenum attachement from this one: https://badassworkroom.com/collections/custom-chastity-cage/products/ba-28f Very comfy and easy to maintain hygiene.
Aha, badassworkroom. I am already considering buying a cage with a custom frenum hook from them. Didn’t know they have one on their site. but this hook is attached just to one pin of the cage, is that right? Isn’t there a lot of movement and the risk of pinching this way?
We were concerned about it pinching and moving around but it's been perfectly fine. Caged erections are about as painful as without the frenum attachment. We were also about foreskin poking out (I am uncut) due to the openness of the cage but it's been fine. I think it's about perfect to be honest. I'd done some pretty intensive DIY/remoddeling with the cage without issue. Just double/triple check your measurements, and go a little shorter on length.