First Time Chastity Questions

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    After a very long time of fantasizing about wearing a chastity I have finally done it :)
    I got a holy Trainer V4 ( house of denial knockoff for now )

    What I am wondering now is if I am wearing it right. The chastity is slightly tilted to the left, is that ok ?

    I also want to have some advice of what I should look out for.

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    So far after one hour I don't feel any pain at all, what I do feel however is a slight tickling on my scrotum. I will try to wear it for 12 hours and see. This still feels quite foreign to me, having my penis locked up.
     
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    Not uncommon to have ring to rotate slightly.
     
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    It looks okay to me. You should be able to rotate the cage so it lines up better if you want. Just be careful about it.

    The biggest thing you need to worry about is cutting off blood flow. If you can get a finger in the ring between it and your balls you should be fine.

    Watch out for any sort of pain in the balls, discoloring (turning red / purple / blue), or the balls get very cold. Getting one of these is not good, getting more than one is very bad and you need to remove immediately.

    Note - they will generally get cooler, because they're away from your body and that's what happens.

    One thing you're likely going to get is "ball burn", where there's an abrasion style burn happening under your balls in contact with the ring. I recommend a little bit of Aquaphor to help lubricate, but there are tons of advice on what to use on this site.

    It might be a good idea to just go for a few hours the first time until bed time. Maybe not go for overnight the first time... Slowly seems to be the watchword.
     
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    Ah I see, thank you
    I will look out for the discoloring of my balls.
    I was worried about the titling but it seems it's not so uncommon.
    I will take it off in five hour, right before I go sleep.
     
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    Good luck on the new adventure
     
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    All great suggestions. Like they say, curb your enthusiasm!
    You don't want to ruin what is coming your way by getting off to a bad beginning.
    I had a different sort of ball burn. Not on the skin but an internal sensation that I have decided was restricted blood flow.
    Very unpleasant.
    It turned us off for a while until we could get the sizing correct.
    I wish to be a Metaphorical eunuch, not an actual one!
    And do not go anywhere with out that key!
     
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    BTW, mine rolls back and forth seemingly at will.
    Mostly by force of jeans, or mattress, or jock strap device, or whatever underwear of the day it gets tangled up in....
    You know, i do more crotch adjusting these days than i Ever did having dangly bits! ;)

    Oh, and just wait for the moment when you turn to quickly, or bend over not quite right, or plop down on that hard wooden bench and the whole package goes Clunk to hard, or your balls get Yanked sideways and they decide to make a break for freedom and you get the Very Special Manly Squiking Pain that only we can know!
    You know the one that instantly turns your stomach and you dont want Mistress to know about?

    Like when your trainer slipped off your bike peddle and you jellyfied your favorite new friends on the cross bar of a 'boys bicycle' AND why the fuck do they put that DAMNED thing there anyway with our precious tenders in constant danger suspended mere inches above it is what i want to Know!

    And you cant catch your breath and can only hissss out between your teeth
    'hevry shings fine hawwhat maksh shu ashk?':p

    Just wait! :kiss:
     
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    Looks like good advice. Enjoy and good luck. BTW, mine's little so not quite the same, but i do hang left and so does my cage. :)
     
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    Do you have any curve to your shaft when your hard? Or are you perfectly straight out when hard? if you have any curve at all, and youve gotten an erection while hard, the cage will spin. My HT v2 did that everytime it wore it. Make sure you keep some short of lube under the ring and inside the tube. I used to use baby oil gel. Apply it with a q-tip. Now, I use coconut oil and it works better then the baby oil gel. WIth the HT make sure you take it off at least weekly to clean. No matter how well you "think" you cleaned it, its not clean enough as an open cage. I loved the HT though. I wore it for 8 months only removal was during a cleaning which I was handcuffed behind my back and the wife removed it, cleaned me and the cage, and then put it back on. Enjoy your lock up and dont give in and unlock yourself. The frustration is the point of the cage :)
     
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    Thank you all for your responses!!
    Yesterday after some 4-5 hours of wearing, when I was unlocking, I noticed that the chastity was kind of pushed away from my stomach and also it slightly rotated a bit more , like 35-40 degrees.
    I have to say the experience was weird :D. My penis tried to get hard so many times, I didn't feel any pain per say but I felt it pushing against the cage. I guess that's why after 4 hours, the cage was slightly far from its initial position on my crotch.
     
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    Dude, he will put up a good hard fight.
    Get ready for sleep interrupted nights for some weeks to come, every time you get hard.
    And squirming at the table to try to make secret adjustments,
    and you think Zoom meetings are Unbearably Long now! Hah!
    If you have to go to In Person meetings, pad your underoos with tissue to catch the precum or every time you stand up you will need your presentation folder in front of you to hide the off color wet spot.
    You are listening to the Voice of Experience cumming at you on the Chastity Cage Wrestling Network.

    You are going to need strong resolve to master that monster.
    After all, our gonads have been In Control of us since they woke up at puberty, and only Now?
    you want to take away His scepter of Power?
    You are going to have the twins yelling at you too,
    and You will feel the sirens Call of the Key sooner or later.
    Cum on, Balatje, just one more time for old times sake and then.....

    LIAR! :mad: Dont listen! LaLaLaLaLaLaLaLa.....


    Eeeeeventually, Porky and the Beans will calm down and sort of accept the new reality.
    In the mean time,
    You have a test of will in store.:+1:

     
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    On now I'm up to the second experience.
    I will try to sleep with it.
    let's hope I sleep in peace tonight :D
     
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    Looks ok, although our might want or try a smaller base ring, the one you have Looks a little loose.
     
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