I have felt stranded in my thoughts for a while now. My wife spends less and less time with me. I know my fetishes are not her cup of tea. We have spoke at great length on this subject she says she understands. She even buys me things for for my fetishes. She really does love me. I have given her every freedom she wants . I even asked her to be my Mistress/Dominant. She agreed. I give her the best oral pleasures a woman could ever have. I even have great piv with her for hours. She get frustrated.because I don't cum. I focus totally on her pleasure to the point deep down inside i forget my pleasures. However when I try to think about Cummings i can't. I get this weird brain lock. Now we have sex as much as 20 times. Sometimes as little as 6 times per year. The problem is that I have an extremely high sex drive, she on the other hand has a very low sex drive. I don't know what to do. That is why I am really thinking of going into permanent chastity. I feel broken and frustrated already. Everytime I 0lay solo I loose interest because of this. Is this the right way to look at it?
You should consider your wife fucking other men. Hotwife and cuckold. You would be very surprised how well that works
It sounds like you need to figure out what really pleases you. She seems to want to help and with a low sex drive, she is probably doing stuff for you beyond her personal needs. Does having her masturbate you work? or oral on you? if you won't cum because you want to please her first, maybe taking her orgasm out of the question will do. tough one.
If shes not keen on the kink is more kink going to help ? Is there any activitys she does like the idea off ?
I have tried. She cuckolded me with my best friend only once. It was on our anniversary get away. We all enjoyed ourselves. She just has no drive.
She does try to do a lot for me, however, when she does I have a difficult time cumming. She is not Dom enough to put in the effort to train me to cum faster.
She has drive alright. I thought the same. You just need to bring it out. Look at these sites; get up and get going. By the way, My wife fucked her first man on Our Wedding Anniversary too. Read my store here: https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story...nt-will-take-your-money-and-unleash-your-wife https://personallifemedia.com/2013/05/how-to-awaken-her-sexually/ https://www.thecuckoldconsultant.com/category/articles/
The first time? Yes, only once did she not tell me about a hook up. But that is another story. The only thing stopping your wife, is what she thinks it may do to her marriage.
No she is not worried about that. She known she can do no wrong. She also knows I would give her anything she ever wanted.