Hello. I need some advice on the type of cage I should get for permanent chastity. My mistress wants to lock me permanently on our wedding night which sounds very appropriate to me. But can someone who has done this tell me any tips on type of cage etc? It needs to be right size I’m sure but anything else? I was thinking about hair growing and this been difficult. Thanks
I think you have a lot to figure out before even considering “permanent” chastity. I’d start with getting things lasered down there and a good fitting custom cage.
I'm currently owned by my Mistress and am in permanent chastity. However. Please don't let your Mistress cage you with a device that cannot be taken off ever. It's potentially dangerous. Not to mention unhygienic. Remember chastity is also a state of mind. If my Mistress left me unlocked unsupervised and told me not to wank I would obey because she owns me.
Lasers sound good idea. I know it’s big commitment but it’s something I have dreamed a long time. My mistress loves me and I love her. I wouldn’t do it if not in love like this. It makes sense in our relationship as she is top only
Just remember, "permanent chastity" is NOT the same thing as "unremovable device." In fact, there is no such thing as an unremovable device. It just depends on the degree of effort you have to put in. Many of us here are in more or less "permanent chastity" because we are locked 24/7 (with regular unlocks for hygiene, exam, etc) and we have few to no orgasms. My last real orgasm was about 8 months ago. I can occasionally get a ejaculation of sorts when my wife takes me with her strap on. That's about as close to "permanent chastity" as you can get in the real world.
My Mistress is 100% in charge. No switching. Ever. She owns me. I'm her object. Her toy. I no longer have a cock as its locked away and she owns it. Forever. I've been locked since last December. I was unlocked this week for the first time for a hair cut. Bound. I will never touch her cock ever again. I fantasised about having a cage welded onto me. Never being able to remove it. However much you dream of that unfortunately it's not feasible in real life. What if God forbid anything serious happened down there? Plus I like mentally that at any point she could unlock me. But will never allow this (other than maintenance) and that drives me even more frustrated. Please think about this
If your mistress wants you in permanent chastity, so be it. But does that mean she shouldn't be able to remove it should she chose to? My princess loves her key I don't think she would like it if she didn't need one anymore. I worry, without the occasional need for unlocking and relocking it could all get a little boring. If your just getting married, your going to have plenty of time to try all kinds of crazy stuff.
The idea to seal and make permanent is because we getting married and to lock me forever seems appropriate. Also she finds it very exciting for it to be so final. It might destroy the magic if she can just take it off so easy. In my case my mistress is ladyboy with cock and she fucks me so I never use my cock anyway
No matter what it will need to be taken off for maintaince proposes it can be put right back on but I refer to it as semi permanent If it's hard she can do with it as she wants but it still cannot ever come off JMO
Thanks Eve, if the cage was bolted shut it could possibly come off with the right tools. Is this a possibility or it needs to be a lock and key type cage?
Seems too easy. It sounds like your mistress is similar to mine. Your confident she will never let you out? Is yours locked with a padlock type key or something else?
I’ve seen a video of a guy having his caged riveted shut, but again this is I’ll advised, as it needs to be removed for hygiene reasons.
Why ask this in a novice forum? It's like a novice going onto a rock climbing forum for advice on what to bring for a planned free climb of El Capitán. Just take it slow. No need to make any big proclamations about "permanent". It's not that simple.
This is a really good analogy. It's easy for newcomers to fantasize over the allure of permanent chastity just like how the biggest climbs tend to attract the most novice climbers. Mt Everest provides the ultimate example. There's absolutely no need to rush. In fact, I learn something new during every lockup, and each break allows me to assess the good, the bad, and what I need to change for next time. In turn, this allows me to endure longer periods of chastity with the confidence that I'm not doing any damage to my privates. Looking back, I definitely would have screwed something up if if I tried make it permanent from day 1.
Lori tubes can be worn permanently I know they are expensive but they do last forever and work very well 24/7 a good investment