Long term chastity and body changes

I’ve been in honour chastity (no cage, no orgasms, very very little masturbation) for over 8 months now. Physically, my nipples and the rest of my body got much more sensitive (and they were sensitive before). I’ve also lost all my stamina; I can’t handle more than a couple of minutes of hand stimulation, and sex is impossible without numbing gel. I’ve also started getting an awful lot more pleasure from pegging, to the point where it feels like I might accidentally cum and have to stop.

A lot of the changes have been mental though. I no longer think of my cock as a source of pleasure, it’s there for my partner’s pleasure only. In fact, my whole sexuality is changing to where it’s her pleasure I crave, I tend to get orgasm-like effects when she cums.

Recently my arousal became linked to hers too: it’s becoming rare for me to get horny when I’m not with her (and only when she’s in the mood), or thinking about her. This affects erections too, they’re very strong and reliable with her, but more and more rare otherwise (nighttime ones haven’t been affected though). And I’ve noticed that porn has very little effect these days.

 

I found an interesting comment from a german specialist, doctor Mark Birkhahn. In the article, he addresses the question of how many "getting hards" and ejaculations are important for health.

 

It's mostly mental for me as well
Never ending... relentless...submission...to Her

 

Primal

 

Yes to all of this.

 

is more a mental changes; there are some physically update as well, but both (mental and physically) change over time...

 

This is really interesting as I've experienced some of these physical and mental effects too. My stamina is pretty much non-existent now, I simply can't last more than a minute although I only get ruined O's every 60 to 90 days depending on my wife's whims so it's not a big issue. I'm not sure why but my penis rarely gets hard which makes wearing my cage way easier plus I really enjoy pegging. My anal area is my primary sexual area now. Mentally like others have said I am way more submissive. This is really what I wanted from the decision to become chaste but I'm wondering if it is worth just being permanently chaste rather than going through the drop and having to climb back to where I was. I think my wife quite likes watching me go through the climb though lol. Has anybody else made the decision to make chastity permanent? For me that would mean no more ruined O's (Full O's, PIV and masturbation have been zero anyway) while my sexual pleasure would only be from pegging and from giving my wife as much pleasure as she desires. What have other experiences been?

 

Definitely nipples are more sensitive.
No noticeable mental changes in last 2 years.
Biggest change seems to size of penis

 

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Things I've noticed that have changed:

• Instead of fantasizing about porn I'm now fantasizing about my Wife AND experiencing the fantasy.
• My Wife has also seemed to changed some; She's happier and much more dominant.

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A couple of @CZSteve 's really resonated with me.