Last night was my second night in chastity. It was more uncomfortable than the first night until I figured out a trick. I woke up a few times because it was trying to get hard in my sleep. If it were uncaged I'm sure it would get hard and gradually go down without waking me. But in the cage, it's trying to expand but can't, so there is this throbbing sensation as blood tries to flow in while it's constricted. Like pulses a few seconds apart. It's almost a tingly feel, kind of like an orgasm but of course nothing approaching that in intensity. I also realized that it was not able to expand to fill the cage because the head was kind of lodged against the curve and the friction was keeping it from slipping on down. I had the idea to put some vaseline on a Q Tip and insert it in the pee opening and lubricate around the head. This enabled it to slip past and fully fill the cage. which made it a little more comfortable. But boy, even so, there's not much room in there. I will have to find the gallery section and post a picture. So far, peeing is still a chore, but now that the head could reach down to the opening it was a lot less messy when I sit and pee. It's been a little over a week since orgasm and I can tell that's starting to become an issue. Even reading some of the posts on here got me aroused and my natural instinct is to reach down to fondle it. I didn't realize how often I must have done that in the past without even realizing it, sometimes leading to full on jerking off. But now when my hand goes down there without me even thinking, I'm like, "Oh yeah, that's not happening." Guys will know what "blue balls" are and I've got them this morning. Aching, full sensation. Anyone know if that gets better after a while?
Glad you found a solution that works for you. The desire, punctuated by denial is difficult to get past, but it can be done. Blue balls are just part of that denial sensation. Good luck.
Just got back from the adult theater. I thought I might be embarrassed by exposing my cage there but it was kind of hot. I guess it won't shock anyone that I'm bi, I'm guessing a lot of guys on here might be. When I go there, I'm never interested in getting off myself but other cocksuckers are always trying to grab my dick or suck it. So I discovered another benefit to being locked. Puts an end to that, although one guy asked me to take it off, as if I could if I wanted to.
I posed in another thread about how we are going down a smaller size as the 6000s tube is too long for me and was making it hard to line up my dick and pee. New one should be here tomorrow. But even with that extra length when I start getting aroused my dick fills it up. Today is day five in the cage and over 12 days without an orgasm, and when I woke up it was straining in the cage and throbbing every few seconds. A little pulse, almost pleasurable but at the same time it made me want to be free so much. My balls were also aching pretty bad. This was the first time I asked my wife about taking it off. When we started we didn't discuss timing or most of the other details. She said based on what she read and the advice of a friend who has her husband locked up, that she was sure I could go at least a month. If I insisted I know she would give me a key but that would defeat the whole purpose I guess. I'm glad she was a little firm about it because my willpower was low this morning. The good thing is that after I peed and took a shower the discomfort subsided.
This is too funny/scary not to share. I was about to walk out of my office for lunch yesterday. and something about the CB-6000s didn't feel right. I stuck my hand down my pants and it felt like one ball might have worked its way out. I was going to stop in the restroom and check it but I ran into my boss in the lobby and we stopped to talk. Mid-conversation I realized it was loose and about to fall down my pants leg! I was scared to death it was going to pop out right there on the floor in front of him! Thank goodness I was able to bend down like I was adjusting a sock or something, and I managed to trap it against my ankle, reach under the cuff of my khakis, and catch it in my hand. Straight into my pocket like a magician doing sleight of hand. I think what happened was that my wife let me out for shower and cleaning yesterday morning for only the second time. I think she put the wrong size base ring back on. With the other size ring there's no way my balls could have worked their way out. I didn't take advantage of the situation after it came off. As horny as I am don't think I could jerk off at the office. And with a houseful of people including her, I couldn't at home. It did feel good for it to get fully hard for a change and I stroked it just a little in the bathroom but stopped well before I got close to cumming. New device came yesterday afternoon. My CB tube was too long at 2 1/2 inches. This one is 1 1/2 inches but still too long because I'm just a nub sometimes. Ordering a cage type today that will be here Friday. It's only 1 inch long.
The thought of exposing my cage to others is pretty hot. An adult cinema would be a great place as its a very private place. If you don't mind me asking, what did you do in the theatre? Did you just sit there and let people see while you watched porn on the big screen? I imagine you can't stimulate yourself much while in the cage and it didn't sound like you were there to play with others.