Great Night (for me!)

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    Locked Boy and I had a really good evening. I went to play around with him some, promising I wouldn't touch his ass, only tease him. I ended up tying him to our bed in 4 point restraints, put a ball gag in his mouth, and attached a leash loop around his cage and base ring, back round his ball gag strap and attached the clip to the cage so he had to keep his head up unless he wanted his balls to be yanked on. So in the middle of fucking with him, I decided to be mean and play with his ass anyway, even though I said I wouldn't. I started with this curved glass dildo we have, then went to a silicone one that was bigger, but shaped the same. I was able to successfully get a few big drops of cum out while caged, so i decided to uncage him and attempt to ruin his orgasm, which i have never successfully done before...well lets just say i was able to do it three times in a row! It was SO diabolically satisfying to see his cum just kinda ooze out instead of spurt. He said it was such an awful and unsatisfying feeling! After that I untied him, put him immediately in handcuffs behind his back in the shower, shaved him, and put his Jailbird back on by myself, which is not an easy thing to do since i am not very experienced in putting it on him. Needless to say, i feel quite accomplished, while he is just kind of in an exhausted daze. Quite a few firsts in one night: 1. milking his prostate 2. Three ruined orgasms 3. Was able to have him uncaged and managed to not put my mouth or pussy on his dick. 4. Was able to shave and put his cage back on without any of his help whatsoever...after all was said and done, he was like, "Oh, shit....now I really won't ever be able to touch my dick again." All in all, a very good night. Now i am just waiting for him to come back from the store with our late night snacks!
     
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    If I was in a cage right now, I would be in so much pain from reading that post. So delicious.

    It will soon become very satisfying and he will even crave it if you want him to. Just don't allow him any other stimulation and eventually he will be begging for it. You could train him so the only way he gets out of his cage is if you're going to do that.

    If chastity was his idea, this is exactly what he wants. Don't let him tell you otherwise.
     
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    i am in cage right now and it is a sweet pain reading this. @Thatgirl, thanks for sharing this amazing story. And let me just say, i'm pretty sure it was a great night for both of You.
     
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    Yep, me too. Currently caged and definitely swelling. Your impact is on much more than just your own man!
     
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    Thanks for the up date. I enjoy reading these kind of post.I was released for play time last night as well,but put back in my cage afterwards.
     
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    Congratulations! You're getting better and better at this! Quick question, when you say 3 ruined orgasms, were they full blown (as in all the cum came out) or mini (as in a couple of spurts each time). I hear latter is much more frustrating? Just curious. Either way, an amazing set of developments and progress made. You are evolving into a super domme.
     
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    The first two times it was just a little ooze and the third time it was like a river coming out, but no spurting whatsoever. I know I drained him completely. Poor guy is still horny and wanting today.
     
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    Great work with the ruined orgasms! A great update and you should feel very proud of yourself for such a great job! Its certainly 100% your cock now!

    I wonder how long your lucky guy will be waiting for his next milking or ruined orgasm?
     
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    Awesome! I wonder how much more frustrated he would have been had the third one been a little ooze like the first two. I hear they're much more sexually frustrating and provide no satisfaction at all. I once saw a video once where a woman completely drained her man using only those little ooze spurts (took about 4 or 5) and he was super frustrated afterwards. I've experienced a little one before and it did nothing to take off the edge, whereas the full ruin did result in relief, even if less than a conventional orgasm. Anyway, I wish you both many more - thanks for sharing! :)
     
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    @ChasteHubby2015 - if there's anything more sexually frustrating than what she did that night, I couldn't even imagine what. I literally whimpered while she smirked. And smirked big she did.

    It wasn't...

    That chastity wasn't on even on my radar and didn't enter into our relationship on my account is something that seems somewhat different from the experiences of many that I've read poking around here.

    I've a strong, sometimes too intense personality and Its been a constantly intense, nerve wracking experience giving up so much control. The level of trust I feel, even as she pushes limits that for 33 years would have been non-starters, and others I didn't even know I had, is how i know she's special. More special in my eyes literally every day.

    And she's exactly right. Dazed, spent, mind spinning, and nervous about what this would mean going forward. That's the best I can do to describe how I felt as she locked me back up after all that. Probably the first time Ive ever felt genuinely controlled - keeping it locked up is one thing, a big thing for me; but controlling even this - being able to make me cum without it being what it's always been, is a pretty big mind fuck. It feels like she just took firm grasp not just on my crotch, but of my brain, which is at once shocking it me, and thrilling. I'm at a loss for @Thatgirl 's ability to take me so much further than i ever thought I could or would go, and to take me there so fast.

    I promised to give her total control only half expecting it to ever be more than a game. Last night marked the first time it really hit me that it's more than that. And my normally verbose self was truly at a loss.

    The one thing I do know is I feel closer to @Thatgirl than ever, and I wouldn't change a thing.
     
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    Nice job
     
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    This was my favorite part of what you wrote.
     
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    in a play on words ... holyShitGirl ...... :)
     
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    Well done THATGIRL, wish more women would take your view :)
     
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    If you want to really ruin an orgasm for him. Have him kneel on the bed the stand directly behind him and pull his cock straight back through his legs until it is pointing at you or even a little up. Then edge him as many times as you want before taking him over the edge. Once he starts to cum keep going, rubbing playing whatever you want but keep it pulled as far back and up toward his ass as possible. If you do it right he will feel all the sensation of a full orgasm but nothing will come out. The position of the penis cuts off the flow, this causes pleasure and pain at the same time (mostly pain). However he is left ultra frustrated and horney as it backed the cum up inside him. Then his body will produce more to replace what it thinks came out with no room for it. Even more pain and frustration. If you have not tried it I highly recommend it. Let me know how it works.
     
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    oooooh! will have to get wifey to try that on me, sounds cucktastick
     
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    I experimented with this last week when I was allowed out and I was able to achieve two large oozes within about 2 mins apart, it was like having a quickly interrupted orgasm and I was just as horny afterwards as I was before, it was immensely frustrating. I went for a third to make sure all the fluids were emptied, but I ended up going over the edge and getting a satisfying orgasm, only a little bit came out on that last one. Being emptied in this manner would be incredibly frustrating to say the least.
     
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    I've read about ruined orgasm and seen a few videos. Of course that's porn and not very factual, but it looks like the basic idea is to edge the man right to orgasm and then let go of his cock? Alternately, these videos show the woman squeezing the base of the mans cock while he squirts. Is one better than the other or is it just a matter of choice. I can't imagine being finally uncaged, stroked and then forced to have an unsatisfying ejaculation. My Love currently teases up my cock while caged by playing with my nipples. She love the effect of giving me an erection with no relief. I do precum a lot, that is frustrating and exciting, so I'm imagining a ruined orgasm is a multiple of that feeling. From your experience, does the partner allow a complete release as some point or just ride that frustration for several more days?
     
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    I have gotten better since this post at ruining his orgasms. Sometimes i ruin three in a row and then let him get a full release, then other times, i ruin them several times and lock him back up. It all depends on my mood that day.
     
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    Those mini ruined orgasms you once described are the most frustrating ones. You basically get emptied out of fluid after about the third one and you're still hard and even hornier than you were before. Getting locked back up at that point would have an extraordinarily powerful effect.
     
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    Have you tried to see how many you can ruin consecutively?:):p:D:p:)
     
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    I must not read this thread any more as my cage is getting way too tight!
     
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    3 consecutively:)
     
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    You sound like the perfect keyholder! Lucky guy!
     
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    And it'll soon be even more I'm sure :););):)
     
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