Hi everybody from ChastityMansion I'm new here so I thought I'd introduce myself. I was made aware of this site by a message that was posted on the FetLife site, so here I am. I'm a 55 year old submissive male living just North of London, I've been involved in a vanilla relationship for the past 7 years, but we don't live together, I live alone. I've tried to get my girlfriend involved in the lighter side of the BDSM world but unfortunately without any real success. I did get her once to hold a key to a chastity device I wore for a month or so, but she went off the idea pretty quickly so it's never really been used properly since then, that was about 4 years ago. I have asked her to hold it again for me but again unfortunately she has absolutely no interest. It looks like I have a 100% vanilla girlfriend.....unfortunately. I would love the opportunity to find an online Master or Mistress, someone who could take Control of me but would also be willing to understand that I do have a vanilla relationship to maintain, and they wouldn't be able to cross over or get tangled in any way. I don't see my girlfriend during the week, mainly just weekends. To be perfectly honest I'm not holding a lot of hope in finding anybody, I've been searching for many years on other sites and have only managed to find a lovely selection of time-wasters and players, not to mention rip-off merchants. I keep everything crossed hoping for some good luck in finding someone, I'm sure there must be someone who this situation would suit. scarflover31
Welcome and hello from across the Atlantic. I haven't been to England since the turn of the century, but the two times I went were very enjoyable. As to your keyholding issue, you may want to look into some of the on-line keyholding services. You can set the duration of lock up to fit your relationship needs, but still not have the ability to cheat in between. Just a thought. Cheers.
@scarflover31 We do have a section in the Forums for those who seek a key-holder but because we feel that it helps new members to be successful in their quest, we insist that they mingle a little before it can be used. Involving your thoughts in the Forum topics and perhaps getting to know various members will help you.
Thank you Mistress B for your very helpful reply, I will see if I get myself around the various Forums and as you say get to know some members.
Hello Colleen, I hope you are well? I will as you suggest have a look at the KeyHolders Forum to see if there's KeyHolder that would suit my needs as well as me suiting their needs, Thank you for your words of wisdom.
I am doing much better. Tomorrow is the last day of the antibiotics and Sunday is the last day for the other meds. As I enter my 2nd week of my most recent lock up, things are looking good.