14 days without orgasm, new record. Feeling very horny.

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    #1 DMc79, Jan 4, 2015
    For all you guys and gals who are into this long term, how do you deal with the desire to cum? I find myself thinking of T&D incessantly now, and aching to cum. It is distracting me from what I should be doing this weekend. Any ideas????
     
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    #2 guest 2942, Jan 4, 2015
    go find your keyholder and offer to please em :D, thats about all you can do
     
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    #3 OwnedbyLeeanne, Jan 4, 2015
    Does she T&D you?
    If so then deal with it big boy. :)

    Dianne
     
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    #4 Lialuvit, Jan 4, 2015
    Beg you KH to cum for you and allow you to serve her.
     
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    #5 Mistress B, Jan 4, 2015
    @DMc79 Are you not enjoying the heightened feelings that most males experience when being denied? Teasing will certainly help you to achieve these.
     
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    #6 DMc79, Jan 4, 2015
    Yes, I am enjoying those feelings. We had a nice dinner and will soon get ready for bed. A T&D session should help. I actually enjoy them too, while locked in chastity. I wonder if a 59 year old can have a wet dream at some point in the denial process. I've read that it could take 60+ days for it to happen, if it happens at all. I wonder if I will last that long. Edging can be tricky, but we are getting quite good at it after seven months.
     
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    #7 secretdan, Jan 4, 2015
    This is my first lockup. I'm 10 days in and know what you mean. Going from a daily orgasm to 10 days of nothing is starting to get to me. But, that's what it's all about. I find it helps to just forget about it and fill your day with other activities. As wonderful as an orgasm is there's more important things in life than that blissful release. In finding chastity to be a way to focus on those things. When the lockup really hits me is when I lay down to go to bed. THAT'S when I can't get my mind off of it and all I want to do is stroke it like there's no tomorrow!
     
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    #8 Mistress B, Jan 4, 2015
    @DMc79 you have not actually said, how long you have been caged. The desire to have a male orgasm usually occurs in the second or third week of containment and whilst this never really goes away, it does lessen as time goes by. Or so I've been told. :)
     
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    #9 HZX, Jan 4, 2015
    For me, this is the reason for the long term chastity, because short-term chastity has such a problem.
     
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    #10 Lockdown, Jan 4, 2015
    Wait till a couple of months in when your KH realises how much better it is for them and they let you know it's no longer a game and a bit of messing around and it's not coming off! I'm in my third month and 3 weeks in so far and I am not distracted about it, however I say that I am tempted to go and grab a vibrating butt plug and go for it to get some sort of release, not normally into that sort of hing but I am really tempted right now, how things have changed!
     
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    #11 paulie slave, Jan 5, 2015
    It sounds like you are right where you are supposed to be. Help! I'm so horny! is the normal state of being for us locked bois/boys/gurls/girls/horny aliens.
     
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    #12 HZX, Jan 5, 2015
    @DMc79
    This is only the first few months of very hard.
    After, it looks like you have a libido 15 years old, but you will not see the "cum" the only possible way to release.
     
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    #13 Peter Rabbit, Jan 6, 2015
    I've never made it past the three week mark. After two weeks, no matter how much I try to keep my chin up and stay strong, I'm a malleable melty mess. Good luck!
     
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    #14 DMc79, Jan 6, 2015
    My T&D session yesterday resulted in a ruined orgasm. I tried to be good, but failed. So we start over, no big deal.
     
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    #15 DMc79, Jan 6, 2015
    I've been caged for a little over seven months, but the longest I've gone without orgasm is 15 days. I wear my device 24/7. I very much enjoy the cage, especially in the early morning hours when my erection is good and hard. I have found that a tight fit when soft makes this much easier to endure. No more sore balls either.
     
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    #16 luckyguy, Jan 6, 2015
    I'm on day 38 ( just passed my longest of 35 days) and finding it very
    Distracting also. but loving every minute of it
     
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    #17 yanmaslanka, Jan 22, 2015
    wow, two weeks in denial would be a great challenge for me ... which i'd love to try. currently my gf grants me an orgasm after every 2 or more days of denial (we're quite new the topic) but today is the 3rd day of 4 days denial. and after next orgasm she wants to deny me for a week : D

    even with this short terms denied, i feel very aroused and sometimes distracted. but on the other side, i feel more vigorous - i've been doing lot of excersice to burn the energy that i used to spend on masturbation. it feels delightful and i can't wait till my gf proposes longer periods of denial ... i.e two weeks.
     
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    #18 Alana, Jan 22, 2015
    I've been locked up since the 15th of January, when my cage was delivered. So I'm currently at 6 1/2 days so far. This is my new personal record, but then it's also my first real lockup. I bought a cheap knockoff version of the cb6ks, and tried to wear it, but after about 2 days it became clear that it just wasn't comfortable enough for serious long term wear. So I guess that was my "trial" lockup.

    After 6 1/2 days my arousal level is pretty high, I can only imagine how 1 or 2 months will feel. You guys are seriously dedicated ;)

    Can anyone tell me where to find the "been locked for x days" banners?
     
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    #19 yanmaslanka, Jan 22, 2015
    wow! 6 days during first lockup - that's impressive! are you wearing the device 24/7?

    i've been expecting in chastity myself (without any kh) some time ago and it's been very hard to remain chaste for even 2 or 3 days. i'm hoping to get the device soon and try it with my gf as my kh ... and see how long she wants to deny me.
     
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    #20 Alana, Jan 22, 2015
    I am wearing 24/7 with the exception of about 20 minutes every other day for "sanitary concerns"
    However I have not allowed myself an Orgasm while out of the cage.
     
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    #21 yanmaslanka, Jan 22, 2015
    wow. this must feel frustrating ... and delightful, at the same time.
     
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    #22 lockedfreddy, Jan 22, 2015
    like you am only allowed out for cleaning in 2 days I will have gone for my record still don't know when I will be released.
     
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    #23 Lockdown, Jan 22, 2015
    I have never gone less than two weeks!
     
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    #24 maid jessica 43, Jan 22, 2015
    At day 14 going to at least 42 to break the record of 41. Last year had total of 36 squirts (to tiny to cum). This year less.
    I find much more enjoyment watching my QUEEN orgasm (275 last yr). My little squirts have grown to mean nothing to me
     
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