Ladies, do you put the device on yourself?

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    I wonder if any of our beautiful KH put the device on by themselves.
    From time to time? regularly? always?

    This is something I find extremely erotic, and I am most likely not the only boy who feels that way :)
    Do you find it erotic too? Or is it just a task like any other?

    The eroticism of it is amazing, but it's also the main problem.

    My wife and I have tried to let her put it on many times... But as soon as she grabs the device with her hand, I start to get hard :-( It is probably the moment I know of, where it is the hardest to control my erection!
    Still she has managed to put it on herself twice!

    The first time, she sent me to masturbate after every failed attempt... It was long and boring, as I had to come 5 times before my penis would give up. And the 5th time, I had to masturbate for a long while. Not very pleasant.

    The second time was a better experience. She made me read Lord Byron's poetry until I got soft enough!
    It didn't work at first, but as I am French reading it requires concentration. Then she asked me to use the proper intonations, and bring the poetry to life! I got lost in the words, and suddenly... I felt the cage going up my shaft.

    Click!

    If you put the device on yourself, do you use strategies you would like to share?
     
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    Not often as they have no bits of their own to hang it on.:)

    Xx Wendy
     
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    I have the same problem as you, Metalman. I have to do it myself or else I get too turned on watching her try.
     
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    #4 Mascara^Snake, May 21, 2014
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    Personally I prefer to do the fitting and removal myself. I think it's an important aspect in the psychology of chastity whether it be lifestyle or play.
    Over the years I've discovered a number of ways to thwart that inevitable erection and get it all to fit back together. Often his familiarity with being locked by me, combined with my speed and dexterity are enough to complete the task.
    However, of course there are times, for example "post tease" or "post cleaning" when the use of Ice or other means to put him back together is essential. He can also assist by dissociating his thoughts.
     
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    Thank you for your input Ms Amanda.
    I also tend to think it's an important part of the psychology.
    Dissociating thoughts is absolutely necessary. Yet, it is not easy to think about something else, when you have a beautiful woman who is about to lock you up :)

    Dexterity is a must too! Did you practice?
     
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    I have had practice.
     
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    To be in the situation of having anyone , but more especially a mistress having their hands on my boy bits and to be thinking what am I going to cook for dinner , seems disrespectful at the least and more importantly impossible I would think.


    Xx Wendy
     
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    That's a way to see it.
    But keeping your KH from the pleasure of locking you up herself, because of uncontrolled erections could be considered disrespectful as well
     
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    So what you are saying is it puts a sub between a cock and a hard place or something like that.

    Xx Wendy
     
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    The cb range of devices are so fiddly I left it to my sissymaid to work it all out. With her new cage, I can have it on her and locked in seconds. Much better.
     
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    God B, those plastic cb things are a horribly fiddley puzzle!
    My last dealings with one of those was to crush it to pieces underfoot on the bathroom floor.
    (It was empty at the time) ;-)
     
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    Lol my kh feels the same way she always has me put it on myself. she only clicks the lock in place
     
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    #13 Mascara^Snake, May 22, 2014
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    That's exactly what we used to do.
    However, one solution is to glue together all the parts that make up the ring.
    Then there are only two bits which makes it far less fiddley. Though it didn't seem to make any difference to the complaints about pinching when it's being put together.
    "Ow" or "do it like this" and " you need to pull the skin like that" etc. not really what you want to hear while you're doing your best to be dominant.
    Thankfully that's all in the distant past :)
     
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    How true!
     
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    What with jemima glueing her fingers together after it split, the ring that fitted her best, breaking, and then to top it all, she lost the post down the bath plughole.
    I wish I had crushed it underfoot Amanda.
     
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    Lol
    Not a good combination jemima super glue device and her bits img A&E here were come. :)

    Xx wendy
     
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    Had she accidently glued her penis to the cage instead, it would have made a very secure setup :D
     
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    Why would she get involved in that ? - She has more important things to do - like simply extending her hand and say: "The key - thank You!" along with other nice things;-)
    I can understand the ceremonial in having her to put it on , - I have been there myself. But sometimes fantasy meets reality or even better: her needs, -and they are not to fiddle with pins and locks. Her true powers shows when you as her sub, manage to discipline yourself to her absolute satisfaction....
     
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    When I have been allowed out I have to put myself back inside.
    My KH likes to hear the lock click and so do I.
     
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    @BlueEyes I'm certainly not going to glue her cage back together.
     
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    Dear @Mistress B - I was not the one who suggested that. :) Crackable cages should expelled ;-)
     
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    Mistress and I do a "compromise". I fit myself into the base ring & cage and I line up the holes for the security screw lock up. Mistress then screws in the screw and takes possession of the key ..... until she unlocks me & removes the cage one month later (at which time I bottom for her)! There is no way I could stay small enough for Mistress to fit me into the device when it is time to lock me up. It is hard for me to even do it myself in Mistresses presence!
     
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    I totally agree with you. I think we have cleared up out little misunderstanding. :)
     
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    Funny stuff here. My wife does not use this site no matter how many times I ask so I will give the lowdown for her.
    She makes me do it while she watches, then clicks the lock and that's it for the day.
    I am expecting a full belt next week that may not come off for days at a time if it fits well.
    I am impressed with any woman who can put these things on without help and without hurting or pinching
    Anything.

    Mistress Amanda is ultra cool with her abilities.
     
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    Thank you :) though as I mentioned, it depends entirely on how many bits and pieces are involved.
     
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