Looking for a cage for my bf. I want it to be very very tight. He needs to know I'm in control. Anyone have any suggestions in what kind is good?
I take it that you want this for short term use, for an afternoon to a weekend. Otherwise you don't really want it to be tight. For this get one of the most inexpensive ball trap devices you find. The fit does not have to be all that close. The CB-x000 line is the most popular. They come in several different shapes, colors, and color patterns. If you don't mind waiting (a month or so) there are many metal devices that are shipped from China for a reasonable price. I would post a url but it may be thought of as spam. You can ask in email if you like. If you are looking for something more, there are many reviews here on this site as well as the long lived alter boy site. As I have said before the best investment you can make in chastity is not in the device but with the keyholder. If the chaste values the keyholder relationship highly and does not to wager that loss, then the lock on the device and the key on your necklacell or anklet it just window dressing. Love and devotion can be stronger than steel. Have a wonderful time. Please share your experience back here on the site.
This device seems pretty popular lately. http://www.dhgate.com/product/new-d...uper/387358478.html#s1-19-1b;searl|2949050409. It usually takes about 20-30 days to get since it comes from china. I would measure him for the ring before ordering. If the device is too tight things turn purple and fall off.
"Love and devotion can be stronger than steel". I like the way you think. This sight could use more of that kind of thinking. I look forward to reading more of your posts. The best Chastity device is a submissive mind.
Omg! Thank you so much! Do you mind me asking if you are currently locked? If so, do you have a keyholder? I really appreciate the detail you went into. I love to be very cruel so I don't mind how tight it is for a period of a day or two lol.
Welcome to the Mansion I hope you find the help and advice your looking for. A device is a personal thing since every penise is different. The device that works for me may not work for you. Give it time. You'll find your perfect device. Enjoy your journey
The best are the custom made ones as we discovered. They are also the most expensive. The others only offer two cage lengths, so it is difficult to get a tight fit. I have a Jailbird from Mature Metal that was custom made to fit my penis like a glove. I have no room to grow in it and it touches me at the tipe and on all sides. For us it was a long term investment since my CB6000 broke on me three times in a few months. Was not made for 24/7 long term use. Also even the small cage was too big. I could get a full erection in it. Now I am safe and secure in a cage that is 1 1/4" long. When I try to get erect, all that happens is that my cage moves away from my body and the ring hurts my testicles. A very uncomfortable feeling so I try to not get erect but my wife likes to tease me so I do try to get erect. Off the shelf chastity cages are two sized fit all as far as the cage part is concerned. Neither size fit me tight in the 4 chastity cages we bought originally. Now we started year 5 wearing my Jailbird for a little over 4 years 24/7.
Wow that's straight to the point. Yes I do. The reason I do is the interesting part. I've been with my Wife/KH for 37 years I've played with chastity for 7 and been totally under her control and seldom released for almost 3 years. Most marriages are very similar. The man orgasms when he want and how he wants. He doesn't care much about the deep pleasure and orgasms of his wife. For 25 years I had all the orgasms I wanted through sex or masterbation and my wife had very few. I was starting to think this wasn't right. So I made my first chastity device. ( I posted a picture of it. Trust me buy one don't build your own ) We went away for the weekend and I was locked up and we didn't take a key. In a hotel away from home. We got very passionate and since I was locked up giving her pleasure and an orgasm was the only thing I could do. She received more Orgasms that weekend than the previous 5 years.Thats when I decided that it's better to give than receive. So yes I enjoy being locked up because my wife enjoys the attention and pleasures she receives Or did you just want the short answer, Yes I Do
I'd go for good hard steel. Custom to the exact size it needs to be for him. Very good reputation is MatureMetal http://www.maturemetal.com/chastity-devices/ Plenty of reviews of it on CM.JailBird & Queen's Keep are the most popular.