Help me tame that disobedient, mischievous sub....

In that case do it, fasten him down and instil a mindset he will never forget, might have to be harsh first time but it will be a lesson well learnt.

 

If he wants to be spanked. Shouldn't you be not spanking him? I'm not a dom so will quickly bow to others knowledge. But aren't you playing into his hands.

If he wants to be spanked shouldn't you be trying to find the opposite of that or something he really dislikes. Like tying him down for a spanking but then just disappearing off and depriving him of the attention for a while?

Don't know just a thought. But if he's trying to take the initiative away from you then maybe you need to approach the problem from the other way around.

Of course belting him black and blue could work too - in a careful what you wish for way.

I hope you work it out which ever way you go.

 

Your getting well into it and hes testing youre metal. Show him other ways that you can control him.
Spanking stopped working for me for a while too. Thats when i decided to sissify and turn the tables on him. Leaving him outdoors, taking him in the car,
Imagine the humiliation . Dumped somewhere in his heels and slutty outfit totally exposed to the world as the submissive sissy hes become. In the dark of course. We dont want him arrested.
The bonus of this is it turns me on too.
He will soon realise that youre his only saviour in these situations.
Good luck with this test.

 

theres nice spanking and ones that hurt lots. if i been naughty its one that hurts lots and i try not to get one of them.

 

I like the idea of tying him up for a spanking and then leaving him for a few hours while you go and watch tv for a while. You could pop in occasionally and ask how he is doing and then go away again.

 

You could always try my idea. Take him in the car and tie him up for a few hours.

 

Its interesting to hear the different types of discipline and control from different doms. My ideas are a bit different .but then for me the best form of humiliation is to take the masculinity away.ie cock cage and pretty things.
My husband has a slight build and cute legs and bum so i love it too

 

Sounds on the right track.
Does he have a nice physique then as a builder .
Is it only the panties he has, i bet he cant look you in the eye while hes wearing them. Some pink heels a corset, pink stockings and mini and he'll or should i say she'll be putty in your hands

 

Sounds like hes used to being in control and being the alpha male. Its not realistic to behave this way constantly especially when theres kids about.
Its the same for us.
During the times that im in control though its great for both of us.
The more in control i am the sexier it gets.
And the only way for me to keep feeling needed wanted and appreciated is to remove the man from him and remind him whos in charge.

 

Damn children! Mine are in their late teens and early twenties and they still influence how far we can take things!

 

Next time you release him tie him down, then give him a ruined orgasm into a shallow cup. Place the cup where he can see it. Then proceed with an evil caning. Be sure to explain to him why he's getting this treatment. When you're done with the caning make him eat his cum. If he complains about the taste offer to wash his mouth out with soap.

 

So what was the outcome of the disonedient sub.
Has he become better behaved or are you still having trouble.

 

As a sub male I not sure I have permission to post on this topic if not I apologise.Putting him in panties amuses you and turns him on which is great but not really helping with your discipline issue might I suggest some ways to control him through them?

 

I find ballbusting or edging with hot sauce to be an effective deterrent for misbehavior for male subs. Certainly DO NOT give them the thing they desire if they are being naughty.

Alternately if you do not have an inner sadist like me, menial tasks followed by corner time equivalent to their age in minutes while they think about what they have done and why it is wrong, make sure you are clear about why they are being punished. If they do not come back after this solemnly sorry and with a better attitude then repeat. If they do not change then discuss your needs and why they are not being met, if the talk is not effective then remove chastity and also attention until they beg for them back and convince you it is worth the time through their actions.

 

i hate having to stand in the corner its the worstest thing i think.

 

Kneeling in the corner on peas or rice is worse