International Chastity Month

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    #26 Rita, Jan 14, 2016
    It looks like the 2nd picture shows a shock collar fitted where it will be most effective.
    Rita
     
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    #27 Subeva74, Jan 14, 2016
    Thnx.
    I haven't seen anything about it on the vanilla news sites.
     
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    #28 OnTheEdge, Jan 14, 2016
    Well I have no key holder and am currently locked out of all my devices till tomorrow - but I'm in.

    I promise not to touch unless it is absolutely necessary or locking up. :)

    This is so not going to go well.
     
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    #29 Ormaz, Jan 15, 2016
    Me neither. Yet. We might see a little more in the next days. I saw those fun posters: tumblr_o0feyzZFcg1rhgyyzo1_400.jpg tumblr_o0feyzZFcg1rhgyyzo2_400.jpg
     
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    #30 Ormaz, Jan 15, 2016
    Great job, OnTheEdge! You can do it! Maybe you can keep a journal on The Vault with the "International Chastity Month" title. Anyone else taking the challenge could pitch about their own experience on that thread as well tumblr_ni640ghfHr1sml6n2o1_1280.png .
     
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    #31 Casual_Reader, Jan 15, 2016
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    #32 Casual_Reader, Jan 15, 2016
    Oh, and in support of International Male Chastity Day, Lock Me Up, Make Me Serve has posted A Step by Step Guide to the Best Valentine's Day Ever. Ten simple steps to drive your man wild, and make sure that he's more than ready for his unlocking on Valentine's Day.

    (I'd repost it here, but he used some photos too large to upload)
     
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    #33 OnTheEdge, Jan 15, 2016
    I would @Ormaz but all my posts have been going here since I started chastity - there will probably be plenty of references though (including my current sig).

    BTW after doing a little digging it seems that the "correct" date for the Uberkinky supported day as jointly organised my Twitter user Keyheld (and another user whose account seems to have gone down is definitely the 15th Feb. They claim a few years ago was the "first" but a little electronic digging seems to show that other dates were being bandied around before then (even if not in an organized way.)

    Any how... you've neatly sidestepped the issue in going for a month. But does that mean we have to do it all again on the fifteenth!?!
     
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    #34 Ormaz, Jan 15, 2016
    Not sure how to address that, OnTheEdge. Any suggestions?
     
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    #35 OnTheEdge, Jan 15, 2016
    Well I'm not making any promises right now...
     
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    #36 Ormaz, Jan 17, 2016
    No problem, OnTheEdge.
     
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    #37 OnTheEdge, Jan 19, 2016
    Out of curiosity is just me doing this or did anybody else take the bait.

    No problem either way...

    Although after a very near miss this morning I'm now locked in this (you can find out more here):

    Pico.jpg
     
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    #38 Wolfeeh, Jan 19, 2016

    what if you missed the start of it?? :p
     
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    #39 OnTheEdge, Jan 19, 2016
    Bonus days at the end...?
     
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    #40 Wolfeeh, Jan 19, 2016
    define bonus days :)
     
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    #41 OnTheEdge, Jan 20, 2016
    Up to you - either just what was missed at the start or you could double the difference for starting late...

    Though not saying you should!
     
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    #42 Wolfeeh, Jan 20, 2016
    Perhaps we should have a vote :)
     
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    #43 OnTheEdge, Jan 20, 2016
    So this has been bugging me since this morning...

    Last night I discovered through a link on this site the Only She Cums Tumblr...

    Then this morning before my new device came (and I didn't have access to any other) I had shower and didn't dress straight away. Lap top open and on ... you can tell where this is going.

    A couple of times I'd stop with plenty of leeway and no danger of ejaculation. But then there was a post of particular resonance which reminded me of a memory and well - I gave myself a ruined orgasm. (My first true one...)

    I've been reading up on this and other sites and many people think that its not cheating in terms of long term chastity because it was not pleasurable. But that got me thinking about what I'd actually agreed too on this thread and if it was actually "a near miss" as I worded it earlier on here at all. It was all a little unclear and I thought of setting up a poll, or, asking the wisdom of the crowds. But then I thought what did I actually say I'd do? Well trawling back through the thread the answer is fairly clear:

    Well I have no key holder and am currently locked out of all my devices till tomorrow - but I'm in.
    I promise not to touch unless it is absolutely necessary or locking up. :)
    This is so not going to go well.
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    So by that token I have definitely screwed up and as such will restart the lock up period as of now and add some extra days penance. I am therefore setting a new release date six weeks away on 1 March 2016.

    I hope that this is to the satisfaction of the group and apologise for letting you and myself down.
     
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    #44 Wolfeeh, Jan 20, 2016
    Lucky my KH / Wife isn't here.... she's firmly of the school of thought that even a ruined orgasm is cheating :)

    good luck with your new target however. perhaps you should check back here on the first of march to see if we think you've served your penance humbly just before you unlock :)
     
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    #45 OnTheEdge, Jan 20, 2016
    Indeed @Wolfeeh - There seems to be mixed thoughts on this (and other sites) over whether ruined orgasms counts (even if a last resort to avoid cumming with enjoyment like mine). Seeing as personally promised to cease all non-essential contact to my member I can only see this as a failure on my own part. It was a stupid thing a chastity tease using the name of someone I like - my body went into automatic pilot. Still my fault as I shouldn't have been there in the first place.

    And as you wish I will return to this thread in March to see if you have agreed that my penance has been served humbly. I am away overnight on the first so will post then and check the responses on the following evening when home.
     
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    #46 Jasmic68, Jan 20, 2016
    My Wife is still developing her ideas about all this, but when I recently said I hadn't had an orgasm for several weeks she replied that I had, what about that ruined orgasm I had last time we had sex?

    This did take me back a bit as I thought ruined orgasms didn't really count. It would appear that she does! I think that when she said I no longer needed orgasms she really meant it! (I am not sure how I feel about this, I think I will struggle without at least an occasional lessening of the pressure of sexual tension.)
     
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    #47 OnTheEdge, Jan 20, 2016
    Well so far the only two people to have commented so far both have keyholders who don't agree with ruined orgasms - so I guess I made the right decision in self-extending.

    The lesson being don't promise what you can not deliver.
     
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    #48 Jasmic68, Jan 20, 2016
    I disagree, I think the lesson is that this is harder than pretty much any of us expected when we started this. You are not one of those people who think only masturbating once a week is a sign of chastity for instance.
     
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    #49 OnTheEdge, Jan 20, 2016
    True @Jasmic68 and thanks... Was just thinking about this over dinner. Tomorrow will mark my six weeks on this site from a standing start and the majority of that time without orgasm. Have to remember that when I start a new lock up, I'm still carrying with me all the baggage from the ones immediately before. Which might explain some of the weirdness... (Will think more about that on my own thread later, this was only supposed to be a quick post.)

    Still a promise is a promise so I stand by coming back here in March (will have to work out some kind of fair system for sorting it out by then...) - but am glad you are around to arbitrate though should other peoples suggestions be a little impractical ;) - after all if I wanted to be signed up for perpetual chastity through others I'd be using Emlalock :rolleyes: ...

    Thank you for your continued support so far Jasmic - though I think that many people on here could say that about you too.

    This whole experience has been far more enlightening than I first expected. But certainly wasn't expecting when registering for this website to turn into the Chastity Mansion house pet...

    Oh well. Should have read the motto... ...
     
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    #50 Wolfeeh, Jan 20, 2016
    Oh you've got a long way to go before you become the house pet.
     
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