Thinking I might be getting in over my head......

You two are doing just fine! Ride the wave!
Ss

 

Keep the communication between you both going.
From what I see your doing great a wish you both well for the future and i'm sure you will both work things out and both be happy.

 

I felt the same as you in regards to how much my mistress allowed me to orgasm. I would suggest for my mistress to let me go a little longer, I wanted to feel that desperate desire for her and desperation for an orgasm. The best advice that I can offer is just for you to keep quiet and allow your mistress to do what she wants to do. After I posted several threads over the course of a year in regards to ways to encourage my KH to be more dominant the best advice I got was to be grateful to my mistress for even allowing me to be locked in the first place and to just go with the flow. If your mistress wants you inside her everyday than just obey her wishes because that's what you're suppose to do. I've found the evolution of my chastity walks with baby steps but around each corner is a nice new surprise. Just for a quick example last year my KH allowed me a lot of PIV sex. We had more PIV last year than we probably have had over the last 3 years because chastity helped renew our intimacy. As I said before I voiced wanting to be denied for longer periods etc here and there over the course of last year. I started to notice that my mistress was not allowing me PIV nearly as much as she used to by the end of last year. My mistress loves to make me cum, it's now super easy for her to do and it gives her a rush when she see me spurting big loads after a few days locked up. That's her thing, that's what she likes so at the moment, long term orgasm denial isn't in my cards. However, she admitted to me that she feels powerful when she positions me and takes control and allows me to orgasm by her only giving me a hand job. What had happened without me realizing it was she started to slowly allow me less and less PIV sex to the point where the only way I'm allowed to orgasm for the most part was via a handjob from mistress. By about the beginning of February I brought up the fact that she hadn't allowed me PIV sex in over 4 weeks. She just laughed at me and said its only been a month since you got to be inside me. I know you really want it but I know you like the fact that I'm not allowing it she said. I got really hard and excited when she told me that this was on purpose. It wasn't for another 2 weeks until she let me into her goddess temple. I asked her if she missed me being inside her, she said that she misses the penetration sometimes but ultimately she likes the control she has over me better than the feeling of me inside her. Now I feel grateful when she gives me a handjob and they honestly feel incredible after being denied her pussy for so long and she's gotten super good at them. Along with all that she now finds it very hot when I address her as mistress where before it was kind of awkward as the title didn't really fit yet. So in the end, just go with the flow and do what she wants to do because ultimately that's what you signed up for when you asked her to lock you up. If you keep making suggestions and constantly ask her to dominate you in different ways it will suck the fun right out of chastity for her. It's all baby steps from here especially if your KH isn't used to being dominant. Try to go for a year just letting her do what she wants and see how she progresses and at the end of that year you can both reasses how your chastity is going and point it in a new direction from there. Also if you're like me you're probably talking about chastity all the time. If your KH is not participating in the chastity chat with you then make sure you stop it right away because as I found out from my mistress it's super annoying to constantly hear about. Once I finally shut up my mistress started enjoying herself considerably more. Okay I know I've rambled on forever but there is one more thing. Just like you I don't get T&D, my mistress isn't into that either as far as weekly edging and driving me crazy with no orgasm. So I've dropped any hopes of me getting serious T&D and I've accepted the weekly handjobs I get and am so appreciative of them. So you may not get traditional T&D but your mistress over time will probably come up with her own way to torture you. Baby steps!