A few days ago I told my wife that somehow I felt "calmer" after having started chastity. It had been just over two weeks at that point and I was really enjoying my chastity. She said maybe it was because I was more "in control?" When she said it I wasn't sure, but I expressed that I enjoyed feeling vulnerable to her. Last night I realized that my sense of calmness wasn't me being more in control, but her being more in control. No kidding, right?? Seems obvious! I don't have to worry about when or where or how she has sex. She'll pleasure herself when she is ready and will involve me when she is ready. The pressure is off of me - that is the sense of calmness. My part is easy now - make her life as easy as possible, as relaxing as possible, as comfortable as possible. I love her so much! Thanks for reading!
It really does wonders when you don't have so much on your mind to worry about... You'll find over time that chastity will give you continuous pleasure as opposed to momentary pleasure by any orgasm and thus making the both of you feel better and more comfortable as time goes on. I self lock (solo chastity) and before I bought my first cage, I couldn't imagine myself going a single day without jerking off. Now I'm going full months without doing it and I just can't go a day without my cage on. I'd be very sad if I had to part with my cage at this point. Glad to hear it's working out for the both of you and I bid you welcome to the Mansion.
31 days locked up with no orgasms. It feels awesome. I've never felt such a high level of emotions or love an devotion for my wife. How long will it go? She has already mentioned that there will be no sex during the week, so at least until Friday..... She does seem to be enjoying the attention and my subservience, so it might be longer! I hope t is.....
Try to trigger her into teasing you without directly asking her… Mention how stunning she looks and if she’s wearing something sexy, ask to look at her.