Good post, Sesla! I especially like what you said to your wife about the age thing. I think many 'older' men face the inability to orgasm as frequently as they once did. They still feel desire and arousal, but sometimes just quit initiating sex with their wives because they fear this performance anxiety. Like a woman, a man, especially in his senior years, can take pleasure in simply satisfying their partner. Convincing the wife that they are still receiving pleasure even though they don't orgasm every time is the difficult part. Chastity is just the ticket for this situation, a win-win situation in my opinion. Anyway, I think you stated this very well. As, obviously, did your wife! Well done!
"I finally decided that I wanted her to be more dominant, I needed to begin behaving more submissively. Instead of topping from the bottom" This made me laugh out loud this morning. Thank you xx