Hi all. My Wife/Mistress and I play with chastity every few months or so. I am a sissy, who really enjoys panties, as well as being Mistresses sissy maid, blush. We have quite a lot of panties, restraints, vibrators, paddles, crops etc. and CB6000S as I have a very small clitty. The problem we have is that when I need to be punished, Mistress struggles to find appropriate punishment for sissy, as sissy gets turned on [as much as CB will allow] and Mistress says that's not really a punishment then is it?! Do other members have ideas for punishments, either physical or psychological? Our games are kept between us, therefore out her people are not involved (Apart from online of course!)
Well, as you enjoy being in panties and such like - maybe a spell when you have to be her Roman gladiator slave? Banned from Panties and sissy stuff would surely be a miserable punishment and no turn on at all? Of course, being ignored is probably the worst psychological one ever
If you get turned on, she is not hurting you enough. I know when I am being punished for real and with it is just some BDSM fun. Try some Ben Gay or Icy Hot or any of those heat creams for sprains and sore muscles. Cinnamon extract is especially painful. Apply to balls and into rectum for more pain than you know what to do with. Be careful though. Ice cubes up your rectum are usually effective too. Our basic punishment is a very hard paddling. Maybe 50-100 strokes at full force to my butt and inner thighs. I do not find that pleasurable at all.
@Vtpb Most subbies enjoy a light spanking. Your wife should be encouraged to use a trifle more arm power when disciplining you. :spank:
This is something we are exploring at the moment, with "panties as a reward", unfortunately I sometimes need further "inspiration", so more punishment ideas are needed.
I think/know she is worried about hurting me. She has a paddle that she is quite fond of and has a real go with that , which I like ;-) It's fair to say this is more my scene, than hers, but although she enjoys it as well, and we have a lot of fun with it, she is only into it because of my fetish. As such she doesn't hurt me as much as "I'd like".